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My name is Adrienne. I'm 57 years old. I'm a Technical Services Librarian (that is, I work in the back processing books and maintaining the computer system) at a small college in Illinois. I have two cats, Zara and Mimi, who don't get along very well, leading to "Kitty Drama" LJ posts :)

I'm from the Chicago area originally (Evanston for those who know the area).

I previously was a technical writer in Silicon Valley. That could be a long essay in and of itself. I liked the work, but there was way too much of it and a lot of pressure. When I became sick with schizoaffective disorder, I was no longer able to do my job, so I left and got a Master's Degree in Library Science.

I have no siblings or cousins. My mom lives in the Detroit area and my dad moved to Nevada. I'm single (divorced). I'm bi, but it's a moot point right now living in a small town.

I wrote the above before the pandemic. Now I'm spending a lot of time armchair traveling. I'm about 13 years out from retirement, so I have a list of places to check out, but, of course, can't travel right now. I'm looking at camping as a COVID-friendly way to travel. The first major trip on my list when I can travel is Eastern Tennessee, and I want to do some hiking in the Great Smoky Mountains. I'm hoping to squeeze in some hiking and camping trips in Illinois this fall, COVID permitting.

I've been lucky during the pandemic because I still have a job, working from home. Our college is planning on-site classes this fall. We'll see how that goes.

My journal is about half friends-only and half not. I lock down posts in which I talk about work, which is frequently lately.

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I overslept and scrambled to make my doctor’s appointment. Quick shower.

I had my appointment with the Weight Management person. She suggested that I take a multivitamin to add to my pile of pills. She made some suggestions to replace ice cream. She set a date for me to join the gym. She also suggested bariatric surgery, but I said that I wasn’t comfortable with that. I liked her better than the first person whom I was seeing.

I ordered the multivitamin. I also ordered some Buff Out Callus Remover and cream to give my feet some love. I should make a pedicure appointment.

Overslept my nap. I’m tired.

I’m looking into a meal plan for frozen dinners again. Tempo by Home Chef has high-protein dinners. And I can get American Airlines miles from them. Okay, they made it really tough to change from meal kits to frozen dinners because I was a previous customer, but I finally got it. I’m also looking at folding tricycles for running errands.

I have 25,000+ airline miles. Woo hoo! I wonder how many I’d need for a free flight to Hawaii for the cruise. Oh! It says that I could use them for a one-way flight. (40,000 miles for a round-trip.) But I could also use airline miles to see my dad.

I bought some things like the toothbrush with UV sanitizing. And they keep sending emails: “Your item is on the way.” “Your item will be getting here soon.” Etc. Don’t they know that’s annoying? I unsubscribed.

I joined a clothes style subscription temporarily to get ideas. I saw an outfit that I liked, and found similar pieces on Amazon that I think will work (and it’s much cheaper!) It’s a casual outfit with a flowy bohemian top and balloon pants. I wish that I had had it on the trip. I recreated another outfit with help from eBay and Amazon (belted leather jacket, flare jeans, and a belted top. I paired it with brown lace-up shoes from Orthofeet, which were more expensive than the rest of the outfit).

I can’t find my garbage bags, even though I’ve used them since I came back. I ordered more from Amazon, but I’ll just roll the garbage cans out as is tonight.

I need to feed the dogs and take them outside after I post.
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I ordered the ibuprofen and some floor cleaner for delivery tomorrow. I canceled the order because some ibuprofen arrived from Amazon.

I saw an ad for a month in various places in Europe for people over 55. The places are Barcelona, Florence, and Istanbul. Hmm, that is more practical for me than longer trips with someone taking care of my pets. The Florence and Istanbul ones interest me. And they have language lessons.

Woke up with my alarm at 7:30 AM. Had a nice shower. I went for the longest time without a shower that I think that I’ve ever done before this shower. It’s nice to be clean.

It’s supposed to be hot today. I’m sitting in my kitchen in short sleeves and jeans, but I’m feeling cold right now.

Gracie is barking (at Oliver?) I called her “Miss Barko”.

Okay, I’m going to do online lessons for Italian, French, and Turkish. I have online sites for all of them. Eventually I’ll work with tutors, but not right now. I can work on vocabulary on my own.

Okay, I figured out what to grow on the sides of the driveway: heather. I had wanted lavender but it requires full sun. The driveway is shady.

My Internet access is fixed (again). I hope that it stays that way.

I have a sore throat and am really tired. I think that I’ll have to drop choir for this semester. Okay, sent an email to the choir director. I’m going to nap in a few minutes. I tried to oversleep my nap, but the dogs made it difficult. They wanted me to get up and let them outside!

Fed the fur faces. Time to go back to sleep.
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Woke up at 7:30 AM to use the bathroom, and went back to sleep until 12 PM. I guess that I’m over my jet lag.

Hmm. I feel like going back to sleep after getting my groceries and feeding the fur faces. Maybe I won’t get the car until after dark.

Gracie is barking at the cats. I bought a whistle-type device to distract her from barking. We’ll see how it works.

I forgot to mention that I received the blue Orthofeet shoes and wide socks. I’ll be able to wear them daily now.

Got my grocery order. The ibuprofen wasn’t included in my order, although I’m sure that I ordered it, so I need to run out tonight.

I ordered a TAO Clean electric toothbrush, which has UV light to sanitize the bristles. I was going to order a travel case for it too, but then I told myself to see if I like it first.

My car insurance payment was due. Usually, I pay a whole year in advance, but I don’t have the money, so I set up a payment plan.

Lily is lying on my purse. That doesn’t look comfortable, but I guess that she thinks that it is.

I might not pick up the car today. I need to listen to my choir music for choir tomorrow.

Fed everyone. It’s nap time. The dogs seem to have caught up on their sleep; they are wrestling in bed. Sigh. They finally settled down, and I had a nap. I wanted to go back to sleep after my alarm went off, but the dogs wouldn’t let me.

Holy cow, it’s going to be hot tomorrow (89F/32C).

I need to shower and run out for ibuprofen. Though hmm, I feel like going back to sleep. Maybe I could run to the store tomorrow morning? Anyway, I’m making dinner.

The cat dishes are soaking, so I’ll post. Then I’ll feed the dogs, and take them out, and go to sleep.

Lazy Day

Oct. 10th, 2026 11:33 pm
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Woke up at 5:30 AM to use the bathroom. Stayed up a little while, then went back to sleep. Overslept and woke up at 8:30 AM. So much for dropping off the electronics for recycling.

Had breakfast. I’m going to take a nap. Had a nice nap. Fed the fur faces and had lunch.

My dad says that he’s feeling old and has no stamina. I asked what his doctor said. Dad said that feeling old at 85 isn’t unusual. Something to look forward to, assuming that I live that long. It’s likely because my paternal grandmother’s family was long-lived. I look like her, so maybe I got her genes.

I’m not going to be able to call the car storage facility today because they close at 4 PM. I’ll call on Monday but might have to pay another month’s rent.

Hmm. I’m having IBS symptoms, so I’m wondering if I should stay home today. I should take a shower though. I want another nap first. Couldn’t sleep.

I need to submit a grocery order for tomorrow because I’m almost out of toilet paper (done). And I’m also almost out of soda.

I think that I needed a day where I didn’t do much. I picked up the fur faces as soon as I got back from Europe and then launched into work. I’ll go to bed early though. Well, maybe not.

In the process of feeding manic critters. Took the dogs out.

I’m pondering if I should learn Turkish because I like Istanbul so much. But I should work on my Italian and French first.

Glitches

Oct. 10th, 2026 01:23 am
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Woke up at 7:30 AM before my alarm. Maybe I’m getting less jet-lagged, although I’m still tired.

I finally got through all the email that piled up while I was gone at work. When I first started on it, I felt like I’d never be able to get though it.

Way overslept my lunchtime nap. So tired.

I found my ticket to the electronics recycling event tomorrow. So I’ll need to get up early and lug items to the car. Then I’ll go pick up the Kia from storage.

Overslept my nap after work until 10:30 PM. Fed the dogs and cats, etc.

My tooth is still bothering me, although it’s better when I don’t eat. Maybe I should just drink protein shakes and let it heal.

My Internet access is still out. I’ll need to make another appointment, sigh.

Exhaustion

Oct. 9th, 2026 01:03 am
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Woke up at 7:30 AM. Got up for a little while, went back to sleep, and overslept. Exhaustion is starting to sink in. I can’t nap over lunch because I have a meeting with my new committee in the afternoon, and I need to shower and make myself presentable over lunch.

I took a long lunch and napped a little and showered. I’m feeling more together, though I think that I’ll be tired through the weekend (and I have stuff to do this weekend too). The adrenaline from the trip is wearing off.

I’m feeling ice-cold even though it’s fairly warm out. I threw on a hoodie. I feel like I’m getting a sore throat?

Napped after work and slept until 10:45 PM. I’m feeling hammered.

My Internet was out, but apparently they wanted a payment. I have Autopay, so I’m not sure what was going on. But I paid it.

Need to feed the cats and go back to bed.
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Woke up at 3:30 AM to move stuff around for the AT&T guy. As it turns out, he spent most of his time outside because the line got cut. Talked to a neighbor, and he thought that the guy who worked on my driveway caught the line on the front loader. Anyway, I’m up and running on my Internet access. Now I can scan music for my singing lesson on Friday. But not tonight because I’m going to be very, very tired. I can’t nap at lunchtime because I haven’t showered yet (I was wearing pajamas with aplomb), and I have a dental appointment in the afternoon. Then I collapse.

Got the pets out of purdah. They weren’t too happy, but I noticed that Oliver and Lily ate the food with which I tried to lure them. The dogs are easier, but Gracie realized that I was going to shut them in the bedroom and ran out, so I shut her upstairs.

I lost weight on the trip. I’m not surprised because I frequently skipped lunch and got a lot of exercise. Also, I had weight training with my heavy backpack! I need to keep it up and join a gym.

Got in permanent bridge in at the dentist. He thought that the bottom tooth and temporary bridge were hitting each other and that’s why I had a toothache. He polished the bottom tooth and told me to call if it still hurts. (Right now, I’m numbed up, so I can’t tell anything.)

Took a nap after work and overslept until 11:30 PM. Fed the dogs and took them out. I need to feed the cats (fed Oliver and Lily–need to feed Zara). And go back to sleep.

I had a momentary loss of Internet access (ugh!), but it came back.
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Woke up with my alarm at 6:30 AM. Oliver was on my lap getting petted when Bella put her front paws on my lap and gave me a kiss. Jealousy…. I really want to go back to sleep, but I shouldn’t. I have stuff to do. Ordered food from Walmart.

Oliver wants Lily’s food. Sigh. I guess that I’m back :)

Back at work with tons of email to process.

Couldn’t sleep at lunchtime. I’m cold and need a sweatshirt. Threw on a hoodie. It’s a little early to turn on the heat.

Still jet-lagged. (Well, I was in Europe for three weeks.) I’m feeling tired now. The fur faces are tired too. Bella and Lily are dozing near me. I’m surprised that Lily is being so demonstrative. She’s a little tough to read, but apparently she missed me. (With Oliver, what you see is what you get. Zara is more like Lily.)

I need to do a lot of laundry (in process).

Oh good. Sundown is at 6:30 PM. I don’t want to take the dogs out before it gets dark because they’ll come in after dark, but I want to go to sleep really early. I’ll eat dinner and feed the fur faces right after work. I need to get up early to rearrange stuff for the AT&T guy coming tomorrow.

All of the fur faces are ravenous, even Zara. Did they pick at their food while I was gone? Gracie went after my food, which she doesn’t usually do.

I feel like I might be getting my post-trip cold. I hope not.

Bella is in fine fettle and stole some paper towels. My little sneak thief.

Took the dogs outside. Gracie was being typically manic. But it was getting cold outside. I’ll have to grab a jacket.

I’m going to sleep early and getting up early to move stuff for the AT&T guy.
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I ordered another electronic cables organizer to replace the one from the trip.

I’m jet-lagged and keep on waking up. Got up at 7:30 AM, which wasn’t enough sleep. I’m going to eat breakfast and then take a nap.

Soaked the cat dishes because I want to feed them after I get them home.

My Orthofeet shoes were incredibly comfortable. I just ordered a blue pair and wide socks to wear for everyday.

Tried to nap but couldn’t sleep. Jet lag. I guess that I’ll shower.

Picked up the car at the storage facility. Picked up the cats, who were boarded near there. The cats are at home and are cruising around checking stuff out. I’m going to rest a minute and then go get the dogs. Lily was the first one to say “Hi” to me.

I got the dogs. Bella was crying and piddled out of excitement when she saw me. They’re running around the yard now.

I’m feeling tired (it’s late Istanbul time), so I’m going to skip choir. Plus, Bella keeps on whining. Fed the fur faces and myself. They ate with gusto. Oliver and Lily were waiting outside the door when I fed Zara.

I’m So. Freaking. Tired. I need to submit a grocery list, but I’m too tired to do so now. I’ll go to sleep soon and get up early.

Marc

Oct. 5th, 2026 09:08 am
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True to form, I had a major crush on one of the tour guides. Marc led the tours, while Anna did the logistics. They are involved.

Marc is a history buff who had a lot of facts about what we were seeing. We had some great conversations.

He would greet me at breakfast most days with “Hello, mademoiselle.”

Marc is Jewish, and I have a historic weakness for Jewish guys. He brought it up a lot when I was around. When he heard that I was half-Lithuanian, he said that Lithuania is where his ancestors are from. He asked me if I had any Jewish relatives, and I said, “Not as far as I know.” He seemed to want me to have that in common.

Marc was very solicitious of me and made sure that everything was okay with me. The day that we had our big tour of Istanbul, I was laboring along walking, and he showed up at my side and said “I’ve got you.” Then he said for me to fix my hair (it had flopped into my face). Then he vanished, and I saw him walking up ahead. My guess is that he had a thought that worried him. But I didn’t know, and I was kind of standoffish the day of the boat tour. Even so, he guided me to the boat tour and made sure that I had a seat, etc.

He knew that I was attracted to him. At least one time, I was lit when I was around him.

And now he’s gone. He lives in LA. My take on the matter is that it was a mutual attraction that had no where to go. Someday I want to have a mutual attraction that goes somewhere, so I need to work on my life.

He’s on my mind.
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I got a three-hour nap. Woke up on time, showered, and made it to the lobby to be picked up on time. The driver showed up at exactly 4:15 AM. Smooth for that hour in the morning.

Now I’m at IST airport and just had some chia pudding. I’ve been having a toothache for the past couple of days, which is annoying. I have an appointment at the dentist on Wednesday.

Security at IST has been extra, as the kids say.

I hate Heathrow. My connecting flight to Chicago was in another terminal at the end of the gates. The flight was boarding when I got there.

In Chicago now, waiting for the bus to Urbana. Submitted my first Amazon order, for a charger to replace my Apple Watch charger, so I guess that I’m back in the US.

On the bus now.

I’m back home. I’m going to eat and crash because it’s been a loooooong day.
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Went out to look for a store, which turned out not to be open. I saw a place called Books and Coffee that serves food. I might go there later for dinner. (I have leftover pizza for lunch.)

Checked in for my flight. At first, it gave me the opportunity to upgrade, but then it didn’t when I checked in. That’s okay; I shouldn’t spend the money. Though I’m worried about my carry-on bag given that I’m in a late boarding group.

Decided to take a nap.

Found the spa after walking back and forth. This is a nice hotel (Ramada Inn) to stay at sometime. And probably cheaper than the Pera Palace, which is wonderful. I left my pajamas on the floor and came back to find them folded in the bathroom. And no matter when I leave, the room gets made up.

The massage was rougher than I like. The hamman treatment (Turkish bath) was interesting. The therapist led me out in a towel into a group of guys hanging by the pool, which I hadn’t bargained for. But she put a mud mask on my face, so I was hardly alluring.

Istanbul is barely organized chaos. And there are a lot of street cats presiding with a quizzical look on their faces. I’m getting a bite to eat.

I’m going to get mostly packed and take a nap. I’ll shower when I get up. The driver is picking me up at 4:15 AM.

Here’s the view from my “penthouse suite,” as one of the other tour people called it.
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Slept in a little. Ubered to the Grand Bazaar. There were crowds of people. I bought a necklace like a tree of life, a scarf, and a magnet. It started raining when I was outside, and a guy said, “Sister, what do you need?” and he helped me pull the hood of my rain jacket up.

Later, we met for the cruise on the Bosphorus. At first, it was overcast and moody. But then there was a beautiful sunset. There was contention about how to get back to the hotel, but we did take an Uber.

I ran out to get some food. I ordered a pizza, which was okay. I brought back leftovers. I bought a bottle of Coke Zero, and the guy put it in the bag with the pizza. I’m set.

Most of the people on the tour are leaving tomorrow. I'm staying an extra day. I’m trying to decide what to do during the day. I have a Turkish bath and massage scheduled at 5:30 PM. I could see the Hagia Sophia.

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Today was the major tour day. We started with Topkapi Palace. We toured it for two hours. The rooms were stuffy and hot and full of people. But I’ve seen it. (For those who have read The Lymond Chronicles, it figures heavily in one of the books.) Then we toured a couple of other things and then had lunch.

After lunch, we went to the Blue Mosque. We had to cover our hair and carry our shoes. Juggling shoes, my cane, and my iPhone, disaster happened – I dropped a shoe. I scrambled to pick it up. The tour guide was going on for a long time, and I said that I needed to sit down because I was worried about my knee giving out. She said that she was “almost done”. Well, my knee doesn’t recognize “almost done,” it just collapses. I went to sit outside.

It started raining and blowing rain. My umbrella turned inside out and broke. I told several people that it wouldn’t stay open, but they all had to try, and said, “It doesn’t stay open”. No duh.

We were walking to the Grand Bazaar when my body said, “No.” One of the tour leaders found me a cab, and I went back to the hotel. I took a nap, and woke up at 9:30 PM. I decided that was why room service was invented. The food was good.

I’m planning to go to the Grand Bazaar tomorrow and don’t want to make too late a start.

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Woke up at 6:30 AM. Had a nice leisurely shower.

I’ve had two different guys ask me for money or food. Things apparently are not good in Budapest.

We made our flight to Istanbul. We got through passport control and got our luggage quickly. And we waited and waited for our shuttle. Traffic in Istanbul is horrible.

The hotel is amazing. It’s called the Pera Palace, and Agatha Christie stayed there.

We are sightseeing for a full day tomorrow, starting at 9 AM, so I need to get to bed soon.

I'm having issues getting my photos to upload, so no pictures tonight.

Oh. I had a conversation with one of the group leaders about the prevalence of English in the places to which we went, and he said that it also was because a lot of people have English as a second or third language. I hadn't thought about that.
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Went to the Charles Bridge in Prague. Lots of people there. I walked most of the length of the bridge, until I ran into a knot of people whom I couldn’t get past. While I was on the bridge, I saw a sign for river cruises, which interested me. Had lunch in a sidewalk cafe. Went in search for the river cruise, and found it, but another river cruise had its boat docked, so I took it. The cruise was very peaceful and relaxing. Then I took an Uber to the Czech Museum of Music, only to find that it was closed until December. Oh well. I ordered yet another Uber to take me to a museum that one of the tour guides recommended. The artist (Mucha) created the Art Nouveau posters of Sarah Bernhardt.

Got in an argument (yes-no-yes-no) with one of the tour guides about my wearing my backpack. It worked out fine on the way to the train station.

Slept on the train to Budapest, and I did sleep, but I stayed up late thinking about the ethics of travel, specifically the wide use of English. As an English speaker, that’s convenient for me, but I don’t think that they need to provide English for me. But on the other hand, it’s their choice. There was no English on the bottles of water in the room, and I had to guess which one was carbonated. Much better.

We had brunch in “The most beautiful cafe in the world”. It certainly was ornate. While I was in the bathroom, the people with laundry left. I was scrambling to catch up with them and got lost. One of the tour directors had to come find me. She got me my room early, and I took a nap.

The shower is in a tub again, but I did not fall!

Had dinner in an Italian restaurant. I didn’t get to see much of Budapest, but I’d rather save my strength for Istanbul.

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I forgot to mention last night that a (drunk?) guy went up to one of the guys on our tour and said that he wanted to fight him. Eventually his friend convinced him to go away, but it took a while. Yikes. Welcome to Prague.

The shower in the room is kind of treacherous. It’s a tub with no non-slip mat. It has a grab bar though that I used.

I Ubered to the Old Town Square. Lots of old buildings with ambience. There is a famous astronomical clock, for which I missed the tour this morning.

It’s a little scary that there is a Starbucks in the Square. But I might get some chai tea.

Hung out for a while and window shopped. Bought a magnet. Had lunch at a sidewalk cafe.

Ubered back to the hotel. Man, these drivers are crazy.

Nap time. I shut my alarm off and slept until almost 9 PM. Yikes. Luckily the hotel restaurant was still open. The food was excellent (roast perch and risotto, plus dessert).

Time to go back to sleep….

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I got up to drop off my laundry, only to find that the laundry would only do two loads. I begged to have one grotty pair of pants washed. (Which reminds me that I want to wash underwear and socks in the sink. We’re in Prague for two nights.)

I had breakfast, packed up, and went back to sleep for a while.

Then I took the Hop On Hop Off bus for a loop. I knew that it started near the Opera House, so I Ubered over there and caught it. Vienna grew on me. I started wondering about their politics. There are a lot of signs about the environment and pot shops.

We went to catch the evening train to Prague, when I tripped and fell, mostly on my suitcase, but my knees and one hand hurt. One of the guys took over wrangling my suitcase and backpack. A lot of the group was being boisterous and funny, but I fell asleep when we were around two hours out of Prague.

Now we’re in the hotel in Prague. They have an early meeting for a tour that I’m not going to even try to make. I’m achy.
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Got up at 6:30 AM. Actually, I was lying on my back on the bed to stretch it out, and woke up at 2 AM. Then I went back to sleep properly.

The hotel in Paris wanted to ship the stuff that I left, so I went with it even though I’m spending more than it’s worth. We’re shipping it to the last hotel on our list in Istanbul.

I’m going around in circles trying to get to the Peggy Guggenheim museum, and I’m about to give up. I had a light brunch and some gelato though. My phone died on the way back to the hotel, so I stopped at a cafe and ate dessert while it charged. (I brought a charging brick.) Now I’m back at the hotel.

We went to the train station. One of the people on the trip noticed that my backpack was open. It turned out that my chargers were missing (except my phone charger luckily). Another person had a wallet stolen.

We got on the train. I had a berth to myself. I did sleep, but kept on waking up. I distinguished myself by getting off the train a stop early. The intrepid group leader got me and my luggage back on the train.

And now we’re in Vienna. I expected to like it more than I do. There are used bookstores and music stores though. It’s too clean. I liked the grittiness of Paris.

We went for a walk, but my back started to really hurt. The group leader told me to sit in a coffee shop and relax. I did. I decided to go back to the hotel, my style, with lots of stops, including for lunch.

Finally got our rooms. Took a nap. Wow, it was nice to shower.

We had a group dinner. Then some of us, including me, went to a chamber music concert. The music was fabulous. I’m not a big fan of Mozart, which is heresy to say in Vienna, but I liked the concert. And I have to look up the Haydn piece. One of the other attendees said that I was glowing.

I need to figure out what to do tomorrow and pack up. We’re checking out tomorrow and are taking the evening train to Prague.

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