there are truly two paths. we live within our means either way. which would you choose at this point on your path. do you want to make money or do you want this job more than money. both are valid answers, of course, and depend solely upon your desires at this point in time.

if you really want the money, the doors will open for you elsewhere. and always ask for a bit MORE than what you want, not any less, ever-- (sage advice that has served ME well!)