Not Terribly Productive

Dec. 7th, 2025 08:34 pm
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Finally got the Walmart order. I did get the light hooks, so yay. Let the dogs out afterwards. Gave the cats their late-night snack, and Gracie too. (Bella doesn’t get one because she’s chunky.)

The scooter now says “Was expected by Saturday”. So not tonight. I hope that I catch it fast because of the porch pirate.

I’m trying an app that lists your subscriptions so that you can cancel them. I plan to use it and then cancel it. But it didn’t find any subscriptions on my primary account, which isn’t true. I found out how to list subscriptions on my iPhone and canceled a bunch. I tried to cancel the app and it crashed. I’m going to have words with them.

Oliver snuck into the bedroom after I came in. I removed him because not only do the dogs try to “play” with him, but he has been known to bite my legs. He is NOT a good bedfellow. Speaking of such, staying up late makes the dogs tired. They are flaked out on the bed instead of wrestling. I don’t know what Bella is dreaming, but she’s twitching.

Woke up a little after 7 AM. Fresh snow out. Zara ate most of her dry food. Good job, Z!

Ordered some address labels for my Christmas cards.

Fed us all. At first, Oliver didn’t eat his food (did he fill up on dry food last night?) but now he’s eaten.

Nap time. Convinced Oliver to leave the bedroom after him threatening to bite and swat me.

Stuff to add to the to-do list:
—Get clothes together for the concert tomorrow (done). Put my music in the black binder
— Brush off the KIA. Get AAA to jump-start the Kia.
—Put up bird feeder.
—Put up lights, wreaths, and bows.

Bella: “Why can’t you pet me forever?”

Napped. Gracie curled up in the crook of my legs. Apparently I have a purpose in life and it’s to be a dog warmer.

Trying to wake up. I need to eat lunch too (done). I kind of want to go back to sleep for an hour.

Put my cruise clothes in the dryer. Went into the bedroom to find that Gracie was chewing on the box for my new travel alarm clock. The clock looks okay though.

Overslept an hour. I got the knee scooter. Damn, that thing is heavy.

Let the dogs out. Got Bella in. Gracie wasn’t ready to come in. Waited a while and went to get her in. Bella ran out. Sigh.

Apparently my dad has a small aneurysm in his brain. He said that it’s unlikely to burst in his lifetime, so they’re leaving it alone. I hope that he’s right.

Finally got the fuzzbutts in. Shower in a few minutes. Hmm. I’m getting hungry. But I should shower first to let my hair dry while I eat.

I’ve been wanting to go to a Christmas market, probably in Strasbourg. But Chicago has a big one, and it’s a lot closer :) I’ll get there one of these years. It’s funny that two different places on Facebook mentioned it now.

Got my black clothes together for the concert and they’re in the wash. Also pulled out black jeans and a hoodie for daytime wear.

Hmm. I’m wondering if I should get up really early tomorrow and get the Kia jump-started. It’s kind of late to do it tonight. I’ll think about it while I feed the beasts and myself. Sunrise is at 7:01. I think that’s the way to go. I’ll just throw myself together because I took a shower late and then shower again at lunchtime.

Ate. Fed the beasts.

Oliver is the only critter that lets me kiss him (on the head, not on the nose). Sometimes he’s a lover boy, and sometimes he’s a little shit.

Sigh. Gracie ate the cats’ fecal sample for tomorrow. I should have taken it out of the litter box. I hope that they’ll give me another sample.

Let the dogs out, and I’m going to post and then put the cruise clothes away and put the concert clothes in the dryer. Then I'll get to bed early.

Westward Circumnavigation - And Home

Dec. 7th, 2025 08:11 pm
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I didn’t do much in New York. It was cold out, with some drizzle. I did walk around midtown some. I had vaguely intended to go see the balloons for the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade being inflated, but decided I just wasn’t up to dealing with the crowds.

I did, however, take advantage of being in NYC to go to the theatre. There were a few possibilities for last minute tickets and I chose Two Strangers Carry a Cake Across New York. This is a two person musical. Dougal is a young British man who has never met his father, who abandoned his mother before he was born. Dougal’s father is marrying Robin’s sister, and Robin is running errands for the wedding, including meeting Dougal at the airport and picking up the wedding cake in Brooklyn. Dougal is very excited about visiting New York but is, er a bit confused about American geography. For example, he’s looking forward to seeing the Golden Gate Bridge. Anyway, their relationship takes some interesting turns as it turns out neither of them is really supposed to be going to the wedding for various reasons. I found the show very funny, though I didn’t find much of the score especially memorable. The best song, in my opinion, is “Dearly Beloved,” in which Dougal and Robin imagine getting married in a Chinese restaurant. And the performers were both excellent. I should also note that the Longacre Theatre is one of the oldest Broadway theaters and I found my seat rather uncomfortable, largely because it had a weird step in the middle of it. So if you go, you might want to avoid an aisle seat in the last few rows of the orchestra section.

The next day was Thanksgiving. I walked over to try to see a bit of the parade, but the cold air and the crowd made me give up quickly. It turned out that I could hear most of the marching bands from my hotel room. I took an early afternoon train down to D.C. While Amtrak was about a half hour late, the metro behaved well and I had short waits for both the red and orange line trains home. I ate the most pathetic Thanksgiving dinner of my life - a bowl of Count Chocula cereal! I started unpacking but decided most of that could wait until the morning.

Thus ends the travelogue. I’ll move on to writing about other things tomorrow.
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I have to make dinner - but alas, I am procrastinating. Probably due to a late lunch of salad and snickerdoodles (gluten-free softbaked, tiny snickerdoodle cookies courtesy of Trader Joes). I did go grocery shopping and scored Beechers World Famous Mac and Cheese (gluten free), Capullo's frozen almond crust pizza, Capullo's almond dough spinach and cheese ravioli, spicey salad greens, grilled salmon, and almond/coconut creamer.

Managed to watch a bit more of Down Cemetery Road with Emma Thompson and Ruth Wilson, it's not as good as Slow Horses. By the same guy, Mike Herron. But it drags in places, Ruth Wilson (Sarah) is getting on my nerves and I can't decide if it is the actress or the role? She's gotten on my nerves on everything I've seen her in - so it may well be the actress? Emma Thompson on the other hand is excellent in it - I'm watching for her. I don't like the plot though. (I've seen it done one too many times, I think?)

Outside of that, haven't done all that much? I did manage to clear a space for the upcoming steam oven/air fryer. That I'm hoping works. It should.
It will help tremendously with the nutritious gluten free cooking - if it does. 98% of cooking nowadays is having access to the right appliance.

December Question a Day Mememage

2. Are there Christmas lights in your local town/city? Post a photo if you have one.

Weirdly enough, not. In previous years everyone lit up the outside of their houses in my area, but not this year.

I do have lights on in my apartment, and they have them on in the lobby of the building - which is insanely decorated. (Not sure that's the same thing, though?)

Insanely Large and Decorated Lobby of my apartment building )

Think 1920s Pre-War Art Deco, with Christmas Decorations.

3. Have you ever hand made a gift (or a card) for someone?

Yes. From the age of four roughly to the age of 21, my brother and I handmade all the Xmas cards that our family sent. My father joined us in later years, then eventually, my mother printed off a watercolor of my Dad's and sent that out. We were famous for our hand made cards.

We did block prints, finger paints, watercolors, drawings, everything. My brother, myself, and my Dad are all artistically inclined. My mother handled the mailing, addressing, signing, and printing if required, also the coordination of the effort.

I don't do it now. Don't have addresses for anyone to send them to - even if I wanted to do it. People just don't provide addresses any longer - hello social media and the internet.

YMMV.

4. International Day of Banks. Do you use more than one bank for your investments/savings/general bill paying, or is everything in one place?

One bank for all the bill paying. Savings/Investments is in more than one place.

5. Do you own anything with fake (or real) fur trim?

Fake fur trim. I don't own real - can't afford it, and...not a fan. I'd rather spend the money on travel or something/anything else.

6. Do you own a microwave oven? What do you use it for?

Yes, contemplating using it to heat up gluten free mac and cheese at the moment. I use it to defrost and heat up items. Sometimes to steam - but the steam oven will do away with that issue. I usually use it to melt butter, heat up stuff, and do it quickly. Don't use it that often.

7. Have you ever tried an alcoholic cocktail, or a non-alcoholic mocktail? Do you have a favourite?

Yes. Both. Favorite? Either a lime Margarita, or a Vodka Tonic with Lemon.
I used to like Cosmopolitians, and for a while Cranberry and Seltzer.

Now? I don't drink any of the above. Off sugary drinks and alcohol for the most part.

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Dec. 7th, 2025 02:41 pm
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When I answered the question about "something you wish you had done earlier in life" with "travelling", I was reminded that the other night I was lying in bed planning out a short road trip for myself to Provincetown, MA. Living here with my daughter, I am free to go away on short or long trips without having to worry about leaving my house empty or having to arrange pet care, so what is stopping me? At the moment, the thing that's stopping me is the arrival of winter; I have no desire to be driving in snow and/or ice. But next spring I could think of some places I could get to by car within a few hours drive of here. Like Provincetown. S and I spent a night there on our north eastern road trip back in about 2015 (I think), but due to less than perfect trip planning, it took us twelve or so hours to get there and we arrived exhausted late in the day, and then because we had accommodation booked further north, we left fairly early the next morning and didn't spend much time seeing the town. It appears to be about a four hour drive from here and it wouldn't be too tiring to drive over, spend a couple of nights, and drive back, and that would give me a day to walk around exploring. It's such a small town that that would probably be plenty of time. I'd also like to explore more or northern New York State, which S and I also visited on the same north east road trip.

365 Questions 2025

Dec. 7th, 2025 02:06 pm
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5. What artistic medium do you use to express yourself? The only artistic things I do are knitting, crocheting, and sewing, so I guess those.

6. Who or what is the greatest enemy of mankind? Greed.

7. What’s something you wish you had done earlier in life? More travelling.

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Dec. 7th, 2025 01:53 pm
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I am disgusted. I wasted a *lot* of money on socks that don't keep my feet warm, and also that aren't quite big enough. The socks I've been wearing in winter for years are 100% wool smartwool maximum cushion hiking socks, and I thought that was what I was buying last week when I ordered socks from Amazon. However, when they arrived they turned out to be 74% wool and 26% various other materials including nylon, although they are still marketed as max cushion wool hiking socks. I've been wearing one of the new pairs all day and my toes have been getting colder and colder, so I've just changed to the one clean pair of older socks on hand. Also, between us, S and I had some pairs in size medium and some pairs in size large, and the medium fitted me better so this time I ordered medium, but they aren't big enough. Obviously Smartwool has changed the way they make socks in the years since I last bought any, and not for the better. And even if I went to an actual shop to buy socks, it wouldn't be possible to try them on before buying, and there would be no way to know whether they worked well to keep my feet warm before wearing them for a few hours. I think what I really need is new feet with better circulation.

Another tough day in Texas.

Dec. 7th, 2025 11:01 am
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Beaux appreciates life as much as any being I know.

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Followed Home


They thought the cabin would be a peaceful escape. They were wrong.

When a group of friends travels to a secluded family cabin for a weekend getaway, they're expecting campfires, laughter, and maybe a little drama. What they don't expect is a stranger lurking in the woods—watching, waiting, and ready to turn their retreat into a blood-soaked nightmare.

What begins as a single night of terror becomes something far more horrifying. Because the killer isn’t finished. He’s followed them home.

Now, scattered across the city, each survivor is being hunted—stalked in their own neighborhoods, their routines shattered, their lives unraveling.

You can survive the night. But what if the night survives you?


I guess it’s horror, though it also fit in the science fiction genre. Whatever it’s supposed to be, it’s not done very well. There’s a lot of stuff just thrown in that’s supposed to explain what’s going on but really doesn’t.

I never became attached to any of the characters. It starts out with a group of guys out camping and then jumps to a grandmother who’s also a top government agent. Much grotesque killings along the way.

The “monsters” are something of a puzzle. They’re either very smart or incredibly dumb. There’s a sequel that might make sense of all this, but I’m not wasting the time.


Mount TBR

Mount TBR 2025 Book Links 1-45 )

46. A Path Where No Man Thought: Nuclear Winter and Its Implications by Carl Sagan
47. 20th Century Ghosts by Joe Hill
48. Curfew by Phil Rickman
49. The King's Justice by Stephen R. Donaldson
50. Virgin by F. Paul Wilson
51. The Ancients by John Larison
52. Children of Memory (Children of Time 3) by Adrian Tchaikovsky
53. Claude’s Christmas Adventure by Sophie Pembroke
54. The Girl Who Loved Tom Gordon by Stephen King
55. The Beautiful Ones by Silvia Moreno-Garcia
56. Quick Fixes: Tales of Repairman Jack by F. Paul Wilson
57. Followed Home (Exalls Attacks, Book 1) by Andre Gonzalez


Goodreads 66


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Written by a BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, and People of Color) author
1. Followed Home (Exalls Attacks, Book 1) by Andre Gonzalez


But, hey, it completed a challenge.

Death spurts

Dec. 7th, 2025 07:26 am
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When someone dies here, they put out a small frame with or without their photo and with their name and birth and death dates. It stays for a week. I have seen weeks when there were 5 or 6 frames out. But, lately, like since Halloween, deaths have been few and far between. It's been a few frameless weeks. Until yesterday. When I got out of the elevator on the way back from volleyball, there was a group of non-residents getting in discussing funeral plans so I knew the no deaths string was broken. Turns out it was Harriet's husband. Harriet was the first person who ever left me a thank you note for my creatures. I did not even know who she was then. But now I do. She's a force. She's in charge of the pea patch program and next year will be head of the Food and Beverage Committee. And she has a giant golden retriever named Apple. She and Apple sometimes visit volleyball on their way back from morning walks. Also Apple has a job visiting folks in the memory wing.

I never knew her husband but saw them at the Abba cover concert last year. He needed a walker to move but clearly was ready to boogie. He kept getting up to try and dance and she kept getting up to try and stop him. Over and over and over again. He looked like a ton of fun. As most of us here, I have a healthy stash of sympathy cards. I'll drop one off for her on my way to swim this morning.

It's still dark out and foggy. Perfect for swimming. I think I'll go do that.

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The folks singing in the lobby - aka the apartment Christmas Party, can't sing. So, I put on my headphones and decided to listen to EMDR Bilateral Simulation to block it out, and to calm my nervous system, which is kind of keyed up.

The apartment building Christmas Party - was not what I'd expected? Instead of a party for the complex celebrating the building's 100th birthday, it was more a gathering of a select group of people and their kids to visit with Santa, get gifts, sing songs with audio equipment, and have a pizza party with cupcakes, brownies, cookies and snacks.
Read more... )

So, having been weirdly triggered food wise, I came back up and had left-over chili (I make a mean vegetarian gluten-free chili, if I say so myself), gluten free NY Cheesecake (small) with berries, and some pumpkin latte ice cream with nuts. Oatmilk eggnog with a touch of brandy to drink.

Then watched the rest of Otto Preminger's classic adaptation of Leon Uris' epic "Exodus" on Amazon Prime, starring Paul Newman, Eva Marie Saint, Sal Mineo, John Derek, Sir Ralph Richardson, and Lee J. Cob. I'd been watching it off and on most of the day.

(The book was actually better - I read it in high school, but the film has some excellent and understated performances in it, even if it shows it's age - it was done in 1960.) Not to be confused with the Moses Story, this is the story of the battle to create Israel in 1948, after WWII during the British occupation. Read more... )

I watched it - because I remembered it being one my favorite Paul Newman films. Also I've been listening to the Newman memoir on audible. Newman keeps stating in his book that he wasn't a great actor, he was just good enough, and it didn't set his world on fire or anything. He hadn't found his calling. And he is convinced he probably had a learning disability - because he struggled with reading his entire life, and struggled to memorize lines - as if he didn't quite do it properly or something, but he didn't quite know why or how. (Sounds like dyslexia to me? I struggled with memorizing lines too for similar reasons.) I read well now - but I had to work at it, and still do, I have all sorts of tricks that I apply, most of which I'm no longer aware of doing, and couldn't explain to anyone.

It's astonishing that he actually thinks this - because his acting seems effortless. He's effortlessly charming, charismatic, and pulls in the audience - even in a film like Exodus. He also didn't think of himself as attractive to women or anyone. He reminds me of my brother - who didn't see it either. Often the most attractive people are the ones who are the most oblivious to it.

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I'm enjoying S2 Angel much more than expected. [Even though, David Boreanze is not as thin and hot as he was in Buffy S1-3.] Most likely assisted by the fact that I couldn't remember most of it - having not watched it since it aired or shortly thereafter? I thought I remembered it better than I had? But I totally forgot about Angel's Darla dreams, or how Darla was seducing Angel in his sleep. I also forgot about the scenes with Cordelia and Gunn bonding. They have some nifty platonic scenes between Cordelia/Gunn, and Cordelia/Wes - indicating that Cordelia most likely gets along better with men than women? Cordelia is growing on me, and I don't remember liking Cordy this much when I watched the series back in the day? (I think the difficulty was I came in and out of it, and like all the characters, she has her ups and downs.)

Finished watching First Impressions - which is the third episode of Angel S2. It establishes Lorne's club as another new set. We've moved from the Bar that Angel met Kate at in S1, to Lorne's Demon Bar. In this episode, Angel dreams of singing Send in the Clowns and Tears of the Clown, at Lorne's club - apparently he was going for a medley (which was thankfully off screen - since David Boreanze can't sing to save his life. And I'd rather he didn't butcher one of my favorite Sondheim songs.) Believe it or not, Tears of the Clown is actually a song by Smokey Robinson and The Miracles with a lyric like "there's sad things around but nothing sadder than the tears of a clown when there's no one around".

I'm thinking okay, where are we going with this? Is this a dream? It is - he's meeting Darla at Lorne's bar, and starts dating her, and having a relationship with her in his dreams.
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Interesting episode, all things considered. Only quibble is sigh, Gunn.
He's annoyingly stereotypical, and kind of cringe. I've seen it done better elsewhere. I honestly don't think the writers knew what to do with the character?

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On a final note?

My contacts came today. I was told they'd shipped on Friday. And they arrived today. That was fast. Considering they were ordered November 8.
How much you want to bet that they forgot to order them, and didn't do it until I reminded them to, this week?


Ah. As predicted the party in the lobby finally ended - and prior to 10 pm. The plus side of families with small children throwing a party - is it is never a late one.

Off to bed.

Cozy

Dec. 6th, 2025 08:47 pm
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[personal profile] shadowkat mentioned Merlino wool socks, which I looked at because I'd like to keep my feet warm this winter. But they're pricey, and I'm trying to shut down the spending money spigot. I'll think about it. (I found some cute ones though.) Hmm, they have two pairs of knee-high socks for cheaper. I could save them for times that I'm tramping through the snow.

Hmm. I should find the package with the Christmas cards. Oh no, Amazon says that the delivery "is running late".

All the pets are flaked out. Gracie is lying on the floor with her head on the stairs. How is that comfortable?

I’ve been feeding Oliver and Lily some dry food late at night to use up some dry food that I have. (Waste not, want not, etc.) Zara won’t eat it.

Bella says, “Why are you reading when you should be petting your dog? Clearly your priorities are messed up.”

Woke up at 7 AM.

I’ve been getting tickets for a parking violation on the Kia, so I need to brush it off and get it jump-started today. Hmm, tomorrow would be better.

Ugh. Wintry mix tonight.

Oliver almost got out. He stopped when he realized Gracie was in the doorway. Sigh.

Fed us all. Nap time. Oliver was in here but he left. Good. His interaction with the dogs is not restful. Napped. I feed like I need another nap but I need to eat lunch first.

I think that I’ll turn on music when I work on the kitchen.

Up from my nap. Feeling shaky.

Now they’re saying snow and flurries tomorrow morning. Sigh.

Things to do:

— Shower and put on new sweats (done)
— Put new laptop upstairs. Measure old laptop and buy sleeve for it
— Open packages. Find lights for tomorrow. (Done).
— Work on kitchen (a little)
— Wash clothes from cruise (in progress) and put them back in the suitcase. Fill toiletries bottles.

I started opening packages while I wake up. I got my Elemis travel set to put in my suitcase. Got the dash cam, which is actually worth some $$$.

Hum. I’m waiting for the package with the knee scooter. Nothing yet. I want to wait to let the dogs out until after it comes. Maybe I should take a shower.

The Medicare Web site says that I don’t have to sign up for Medicare until after I retire, but they suggested asking my job to make sure. I still have two years to go anyway.

My Christmas sweatshirt is now supposed to arrive tonight. Maybe I’ll wear it tomorrow while I put up lights. Oh drat, I didn’t get light clips. Maybe Walmart has them? Ace Hardware does. I’ll run over there tomorrow. Actually, I’m trying to order some from Walmart, but it says “low stock”. We’ll see if I get them.

The Christmas sweatshirt is cute.
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I’m trying Olay moisturizers because they’re cheaper. I got an eye cream first because the dogs stole mine :(

The sweats are cozy and warm. They look better than average sweats. I’m tempted to look for more. I don’t need to spend the money, but I could wear them to work on days that I don’t go out. I ordered a pair of “peach sorbet” sweats, marked down for Cyber Week. I will be cozy this winter.

I’m hungry. Made some food. Oliver says to feed him “Right Meow“. Fed us all. Gracie hasn’t eaten her food yet.

I need to stay up until the stuff from Walmart arrives and possibly the knee scooter. I think that I’ll wash my clothes from the cruise next. And do some dishes (done and done and my swimsuit and coverup are soaking in the sink).

I’m trying Hup. You put a Web cam in your home and it tells you what cleaning to do.

I guess that I’ll post while waiting for the Walmart order. Oops, I need to bring the laptop upstairs too.
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You may recall that I had booked the Queen Mary 2 transatlantic crossing from Hamburg to New York City. About a week before departure, I got an email that there was an issue with the ship and it couldn’t dock in Hamburg. Instead, they would bus the passengers from Hamburg to Bremerhaven instead. This was a minor inconvenience, but I certainly would have liked more notice. And it was a bit annoying that they didn’t confirm the bus time until late afternoon on Friday when we were departing on Monday.

I had chosen the first bus time in the morning and took a taxi to the Central Bus Terminal. Several people were waiting around and there were two people from Cunard checking off passengers. There was a bit of a wait before we left and the ride was about 2 1/2 hours. We did have a brief comfort stop and I have to say that the facilities where we stopped didn’t reflect well on German infrastructure. We did, eventually, get to the Columbus terminal in Bremerhaven, where we had to go through assorted checks of our documents (for Americans, this meant passport, boarding pass for the ship, and UK ETA). Then we got on another bus to the ship itself. It turned out that they were supposed to have given me the ship ID card, but had failed to. There were two German men who had the same problem and they made us wait outside in the cold and windy weather before they made new cards and let us on. Apparently the people on the afternoon buses had even worse issues and some of them had to wait as long as three hours before their buses left Hamburg.

Fortunately, the actual voyage went more smoothly for the most part. I had booked an inside stateroom on the grounds that there would be plenty of places other than my cabin to hang out in. That was pretty much true, but I did get in an afternoon nap most days. While I had time for reading and doing puzzles and crocheting, there were enough activities that I didn’t have time for everything I wanted to do. Because I was traveling alone, I made a point of going to many of the twice daily solo travelers’ get-togethers, which were a great way to meet people. In fact, one of the first people I talked with turned out to be someone with whom I have a mutual friend. They have several lectures during the day and I went to some about nuclear energy (e.g. the Manhattan Project), cinema (one on Alfred Hitchcock and Daphne du Maurier and one on Busby Berkeley and Carmen Miranda), a couple of art talks (one on Banksy and one on art as an investment), and (a particular highlight) two by Marcel Theroux (son of travel writer Paul), who talked about making documentaries in Russia and North Korea and about his true crime books. Of course, I played trivia and, in fact, the team I was on for progressive trivia came in second and we won some Cunard-branded tchotchkes. There was also plenty of other entertainment available, especially all sorts of music. For example, I went to the afternoon tea one day, which had a harp player. I also listened to an Irish folk duo a couple of times and to a cocktail pianist who played a lot of show tunes. A couple of people I met sang in the passenger chorus and I went to their concert, too. I didn’t find time to work on the jigsaw puzzles that were set out among the game tables where a few people played board games. I also enjoyed the library which is claimed to be the largest one on any cruise ship.

The food was, in general, reasonably good. There was a wide enough variety to satisfy most tastes. I always ate dinner in the Britannia Restaurant. They had given me open seating, which meant I could show up any time from 6 to 9 p.m. If you want to sit alone, you can, but I always asked to share a table and, except for one night where there 7 people at a table for 12, making it hard to talk to anyone except whoever was right next to you, that worked out well. I met some very interesting people, including one of the lecturers (whose talk on police malfeasance I had missed) and a woman who had worked as a crystallographer. I sometimes ate breakfast or lunch in the restaurant, but more often went either to the Kings Court Buffet or to the Corinthia Lounge, which served “light fare,” e.g. fruit plates and pastries for breakfast or salads for lunch.

I was a little surprised by the demographics, by the way. Yes, there were plenty of older people. In my mid-60’s, I was probably close to the average age. But there also several younger passengers, e.g. a young man who had been studying in London for a couple of years who was returning to New Jersey. The largest number of passengers were (not surprisingly) British, followed by Americans and Germans. On Friday night, they offered a Jewish religious service and the attendees were from several countries, including the Netherlands, Spain, and Canada as well. (By the way, the guy from Germany who volunteered to lead the service had an excellent voice. And Cunard supplied kosher wine, challah, and gefilte fish.)

One other thing I should mention is that I have some friends who told me they would never take a trip on Cunard because they don’t want to dress up. During the day, you can wear pretty much anything. The general dress code for most evenings is “smart attire.” I generally wore one of two dresses I’d brought with me or a nice set of slacks with a twin set, i.e. pretty much what I used to wear to work. There were two gala nights and they tell you the theme long before sailing. I absolutely love getting dressed up, so for the Black and White Gala Night, I wore a full length black dress with an elaborate white neckline. I also had on my grandmother’s amethyst necklace and earrings.

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The other gala night’s theme was Masquerade and a bit over half the people wore masks. I opted to wear my longish purple dress and my Mardi Gras themed Lunch at the Ritz earrings.

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I got plenty of compliments on both outfits. And I enjoyed seeing what other people were wearing. (There were even a few men in kilts. Drool!)

But there are some people who never dress up and they were free to eat in the pub or the buffet on those evenings.

There was always a show (performed twice to accommodate both early and late diners). My favorite of the performers was a woman named Lorraine Brown who had an amazing voice. For one show, she did a Motown medley and a series of Shirley Bassey songs. Her other show was focused on Dionne Warwick. As far as the other shows, I was disappointed in the Broadway show, which started out fine with songs from West Side Story and South Pacific but ended up with several numbers from jukebox musicals. I don’t go to Broadway-themed shows to hear songs by Carole King, Tina Turner, Abba, and The Temptations. Nice dancing, however.

Overall, I enjoyed the transatlantic crossing much more than I’d expected to. I even got this iconic photo as we approached New York at the end of the trip.

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Cunard offered bus service to the airports and to the train stations. I decided that, given my large suitcase, it was worth the 60 bucks to Penn Station (roughly what an Uber would cost) instead of coping with the subway. Marriott status proved useful again as I was able to get early check-in (without a fee) and take a nap. Overall, I would take the QM2 again, though I still prefer small ship expedition cruises.
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This is a trilogy of historical m/m romances by KJ Charles, the queen of the genre. Now, anything penned by KJ Charles is a cut above anyone else's, imho,  so if you haven't read anything of hers, you totally should. Characterisation, plot, intrigue, smut, excellent writing, her books have it all. The Will Darling Adventures are set in London in the 1920s. It's a spy/action series with an amazing love story at its heart, where the conflict is absolutely real and the characters have an emotional growth arc across the three books. It's the most satisfying kind of romance. You will fall in love with the two MCs, it's impossible not to. Once you've finished the books you'll be left wanting more, so here's some fic to tide you over. These are all Kim/Will, with a touch of DS/Archie, and won't make much sense unless you've read the books, I'm afraid. Btw, the audiobook version of the books, narrated by Cornell Collins, is just sublime. 

the world is but a word. 1.6K words. Will was speaking with a customer when Sir Archibald Curtis walked into his bookshop. A lovely little vignette. Podfic availbale, though I haven't listened to it yet. 

scrape out what's left (at the end of the year). 2.2K words. The drive to Holmclere was uneventful, leisurely, and most importantly: not completely overshadowed by one or both of them being framed for murder. At least it had that going for it. Lovely epilogue for the whole seriesscrape out what's left (at the end of the year). 

one shade the more. 3.9K words.Perfect Will and Kim voice, their banter kills me. 

The Pitt

detect my sudden existence on your sonar by [archiveofourown.org profile] Lirazel . 25K words Mel/Frank. Mel thought everything would get easier when he came back. Instead, it's a new kind of torture. This fic is, to me, the definitive take on Mel's POV. I'm not on the spectrum, I've little experience with people who are, so I may as well be talking out of my arse, but reading this story is just such an immersive experience, ti does such an excellent job of sucking you in and making you feel like you're living it all as Mel would. And the pining is exquisite. So good it's almost unbearable. Gah. 

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Dec. 6th, 2025 11:36 am
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Volleyball was a mess. We have one very bad actor and he was on his worst behavior this morning and several of the regulars were there so we quit early. Elbow coffee was not horrible but not great either. Again, good people missing and we did not quit early.

Sigh.

Yesterday I broke a light bulb and did not have a replacement but did have a couple of things on my list for Dollar Store so went there and got a bulb that kind of works. But mostly could not find stuff on my list. The Amazon smart bulbs do not work in my bedside sconces because they are dimmable fixtures. The bulb I got at Dollar Store says it's non-dimmable right on the box but I bought it anyway. Instead of stopping at Lowe's or Home Depot or even fucking Safeway, like a normal person, I just came home. The Dollar Store bulb at least doesn't flicker like the Amazon bulb but I still need better ones - one for each. Why am I being punked by light bulbs???

Anyway, Hazel and John need a new calendar and they always get their calendars at the Dollar Store and they came to elbow coffee to ask us to get them one next time we are there. So Bonny and I are going this afternoon.

I started writing this entry and hour ago and keep getting distracted - squirrel!

I have an Instagram account and scroll through daily. I rarely post anything but I do enjoy looking. There's a dude in London who has two sisters who sent him a giant box of advent adventures. Every day he must deliver a gift to the person on the card. Generally it's a first name and destination. He posts videos of his finding someone with that name in that place. It's charmingly delightful. fridgeplug

While I keep a short list of people I follow, most of my feed is people Instagram thinks I need to follow. I get a lot of 'babies with their Dads' and 'dogs with babies' and lately, it's Tai Chi for old fat people (kind of on point, that last one). At least, for now, I'm out of the fat boobs that need bras phase.

Dinner's ordered for pickup downstairs and Bobby's probably about ready to go so I'm done for now.

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Dec. 6th, 2025 12:57 pm
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The evening must have been too exciting, because when I went to bed I couldn't get to sleep for a couple of hours. I did manage to get my feet warmed up before I went to bed, but it took an hour or so.

When I came upstairs this morning I found we'd had a light dusting of snow. The girls had already been outside to get up close and personal with it, but there wasn't really enough to be fun. After we'd all had breakfast I walked to the nearby lake (known as the pond) with Violet and Eden to see if it had frozen and found that most of it was indeed frozen. The girls had some fun throwing things into the ice, as well as getting daringly close to the edge and pressing on it with one foot. Luckily nobody fell in.

The temperature is now a few degrees above freezing so there's no snow left, but we're supposed to have several nights well below freezing so I'm guessing the lake will stay frozen for a while. Eden has been dying to see it frozen, so now she's satisfied. Violet was mildly interested and Aria doesn't like being cold so she didn't even beg to walk to the lake with us.

After I walked the girls back home I went out again for a walk by myself where I didn't have to be on guard against anybody falling into freezing water. The temperature was around freezing but it didn't feel horribly cold because there was almost no wind and the humidity was high.

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Dec. 6th, 2025 10:44 am
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This morning was an AI morning. First of all I ran across a question on the NextDoor email about ISD property taxes. It made me look and I didn't like what I was seeing. Finally I went into Google and ended up having a discussion with Gemini that was quicker, WAY cheaper, and easier than talking to a lawyer or calling the county tax authority. And I received and verified my answer. So nice.

Then I was making a few bucks on my Prolific account and picked up a survey basically wanting me to do a chat with both Copilot and ChatGPT. Same chat. Compare results. The topic was dealing with medical systems specifically over this Plavix thing.

First of all, the CoPilot voice for me was a Brit. So obviously he knew what he was talking about. I was posing a very complex problem and got a bunch of feedback the end of which was "OK, let's take the first step." It was really solid and I'll likely pick up the conversation as it is one that will actually take a few days.

Then ChatGPT which basically told me how sorry it was I was going through this and how it understood how stressed I was and could it help. Never offered any specific items, never a plan, no 'first step'. Just virtual smoke going up my virtual skirt. And it was an American. Not at all trustworthy.

Such a huge difference between the two I can hardly describe but I won't use ChateGPT again and likely will use CoPilot. This is the second really good interaction I've had with CoPilot, BTW. The first was a few weeks ago and gave me a step by step plan to work on bettering my flexible stock holdings. At that time it was compared to Gemini and came out way better.

And I've never even looked at Claude or Perplexity and used Rufus once on Amazon but can't remember why or whether it even helped.

In general I love doing research using AI. So much potential. And, yeah, it is going to destroy humanity but it says I'm going to die at 89 years old anyway and I don't think it will take over before then.

TGIF

Dec. 5th, 2025 09:15 pm
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Ugh. 0F/-18C. I’m bringing out an extra blanket. (My house is old and a little drafty.)

Woke up at 6 AM. I’m fighting the urge to go back to sleep. I need to drop off the fecal samples at the vet.

Hmm. The fecal sample from Zara seems old. I guess that I’ll wait until lunchtime to see if she produces another one. So I can go back to sleep. Got the dogs in. Now I’ll nap. Napped and overslept. Squeezed a shower in.

My eyes are stinging for some reason. I'd go out sick for work, but I'm "on call" for tickets and don't want to dump work on my backup.

Approved the quote from the electrician for the garage. I'm going to be broke very soon. They are going to do the work on January 7th.

Tears were rolling down from my eyes while I was at the computer, so I don’t want to try to drive. I’m going to lie down for a while. Overslept my nap, but my eyes feel better.

I'm switching to winter mode. It's 24 F/-4C, and I caught myself thinking, "Hey, it's warm!" (Well, compared to last night anyway.)

Enrolled in Long-Term Care. I could afford only $50,000 worth of coverage, but that's $50,000 more than I currently have.

Got Gracie in finally. Fed the beasties.

On Facebook, there was a video with half-dressed male firefighters carrying rescue dogs. Something for everyone:)

My eyelids were bright red. I guess that’s why my eyes were stinging.

My singing lesson went well. My voice is sounding a lot better. I’m feeling fairly comfortable with my solo. I found pointing at the notes on the “hard” song helps a lot.

I couldn’t have gotten to the vet at lunchtime anyway. There was a water main break and the road was blocked off.

I don’t feel like starting anything new now, so I think that I’ll go to bed soon.

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