In-Person Meeting Day 1

Apr. 22nd, 2025 10:11 pm
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I ran my errands. The local store didn’t have Mrs. Meyers, but had Bona, which is supposed to be a gentler cleaner with less chemicals. (I hate to say “organic” because what does that mean really?)

I’m having problems falling asleep. Hell. Overslept an hour. Scrambled to get ready to go. Dropped Bella off at doggie daycare. (They didn’t have a record of the reservation, but they said that they had space.) Bella looked excited. Made it to the meeting. I was stressing because I thought that it started at 8:30 AM, but it started at 9.

Back from my meeting. We went to an escape room afterwards, which was kind of fun. Then I went to pick up Bella. The day care people loved her and said that she loves people. A few members of the staff came over to say goodbye to her. I got things squared away to board Bella and Oliver there, although I need to send some paperwork for Oliver.

The team is going out for dinner, but I don’t have the money for it, so I’m home for the night. I’m going to take a nap soon. I’m wiped out from the limited sleep and all the peopling. I feel beaten up.

[profile] billschubert mentioned an adjustable bed. I want to live here as long as possible, so I’m looking into one. But I want a Marriott mattress so I don’t know. My bed is full size, which makes it tougher. I’m glad that there are people on my friends list ahead of me in the aging game. Food for thought.

I need to get the garbage out, but I’m too wiped out. I’ll gather it when I get up from my nap, and I’m getting up early and can take it out then.

I found a leather chair and ottoman that I like for the library, but I’m worried about the cats sharpening their claws on it. (Chaos trashed a leather loveseat that I had in California, so I speak from experience.)

Crashed out and so did the dog. Started laundry. I did something to my knee, so I'll gather garbage in the morning. I need to find shorts and a t-shirt to sleep in.

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1. Everything We Learned at the Star Wars Celebration 2025

Takeaways?

I really want to see Andor S2.

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Also, apparently the new Star Wars movie starring Ryan Gosling, and directed by Shawn Levy, entitled Star Wars: Star Fighter - takes place post Rise of Skywalker, and with all new characters. (Smart move. The better films pull away from the Skywalker story arcs.)

Also, I may try Ashoska again.

2. Not a fandom bit - but R.I.P Pope Francis. I'm saddened by this news.
Also he accomplished a lot in short period of time - shifting the course of the Catholic Church, promoting kindness and humility. (I also hope he talked some sense into devout Catholic and wannabee Fascist, Vance, who saw Francis before he died.)

3. Buffy Redux

So, I've been rewatching Buffy episodes intermittently. Picked up on a few things that I hadn't previously picked up on? Read more... )

4. Daredevil Born Again

I liked the season finale, and for the most part the series. It's similar yet different than Netflix's Daredevil, which had defter writing. However both are fairly uneven.

Fisk is clearly Marvel's commentary on the Fascist asshole in the White House or the Hitler Wannabee. Fisk even kind of looks like him, without hair. And that makes watching this - an odd experience.

The message at the end is Daredevil can't take on Fisk alone, which sets up S2 to be more of a group effort. People are speculating already on who will be joining the cast. Already slotted are Karen and Frank Castle (Jon Bernthal) aka The Punisher. Also Lily Taylor, and Mathew Lillard in a recurring role.
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Believe it or not? There has actually been some good news on the Climate Change and Environmental Front and a few other fronts...it's not all grim out there.

1. A partnership between the Miccosukee Tribe and Pinecrest, FL converts food scraps into compost for the tribe’s community garden, improving soil and reducing landfill waste. Go HERE

2. The Iñupiat community of Elim, AK protests a proposed uranium mine during the Iditarod dogsled race to protect their subsistence way of life and the biodiversity of Norton Sound. Go HERE

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And apparently on the immigration front? So a break from our scheduled programming into that...which is an on-going battle:
Immigration Legal and Political Battles )

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Back to the environment:

5.A federal appeals court revives a civil rights lawsuit challenging polluting industries in Louisiana’s “Cancer Alley,” opening the door for justice in historically harmed Black communities. Go HERE

6. Climate activists are increasingly suing governments and companies to take action against climate change — and WINNING. Go Here

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7.In 2024, a record 112 million Americans rode bikes, the highest participation rate since 2014, with youth ridership jumping from 49% to 56%. Go HERE

8.The U.S. and China both show significant growth in renewable energy, outpacing traditional power sources. Go HERE

9.Despite budget cuts, NOAA’s Climate Prediction Center continues to provide critical climate information. Go HERE

10. Attorneys general in four states—CA, IL, ME, and MN—sue the EPA and Citibank for unlawfully withholding funds from state green banks meant to support climate solutions. Go HERE

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Non-climate change related, academic law suit:

26. Harvard takes the counter-offensive and sues the Trump administration for freezing billions of dollars in federal funding.

Shade guy

Apr. 22nd, 2025 02:46 pm
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A few weeks ago, they reswizzled our security situation at the front door. They moved the office and the sign in post and also moved the whole thing to new software. Today was the first time I saw it in action. The old stuff was slow and clunky and slow and clunky. The new stuff is swift. And it remembers. The shade guy was here once before - I gather a year or two ago - but it remembered him which made the already fast process faster.

I got both a text and an email with his photo the minute he signed in and he got a visitor badge. One process slick as a whistle.

He's a really nice guy and understood what I wanted and what I didn't want immediately. He's got the goods. Roller shades, wifi enabled to an app and to Google Home or Echo. Rechargeable batteries with a dongle I can reach easily. (My ohsoexpensive shades in the condo required AA batteries. 84 of them - about every 9 months and a royal PIA to change out.)

3 to 5 weeks but, he allowed as how it will probably be closer to the 3 week part of that since apparently, people aren't buying big right now... snerk snerk.

He had way too many options but I picked a color close to the window trim and a texture that I hope Julio will have no interest in. I asked for one shade for the three paneled window and one for the door. He was not sure whether they would do a single for the window because it's so wide. Fingers crossed.

He's going to send me a quote. I can sign electronically and pay up and he'll get it going.

He was a very nice guy and I'm happy to be doing biz with him.

Oh, his measuring tool was a laser and he said he had learned how to be very careful using it in cat households. Julio and Biggie were way too busy investigating his cases to see it but he was doing all of his measuring with a cat toy. He said that early on, he was measuring in a house full of cats and inadvertently had them crashing into China and knocking over a book case while he was trying to get measurements.

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Apr. 22nd, 2025 04:22 pm
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I had another bad night last night. When I lay down to try to go to sleep I found myself unaccountably wide awake. After about 45 minutes of not sleeping I got up and read for quite a while. I think I ended up going to sleep sometime after midnight, and I was awake again just before 5 am, so not much sleep was had. Hoping for a better night tonight.

I'm still catching up with cleaning and laundry after having the family here, mainly because I like to spread cleaning out over more than one day, and because I can't do more than one load of laundry in one day because of the limits of drying space without a dryer. This is a limit I'm perfectly willing to work within, by the way. We are in one of the seasons when washing gets dry quite fast outside, but it still takes a few hours.

Before the family arrived I stocked up on a few things including some fresh fruit and vegetables, not all of which got eaten. Therefore I'm working my way through what's left, trying not to let too much go to waste. There's also some stuff in the freezer, but I can get through that more slowly.

365 Questions 2025 - catching up

Apr. 22nd, 2025 04:16 pm
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13. Are you happy with yourself? Sometimes, but sometimes I'm mentally beating myself up for all the ways I've failed to be a good human being throughout my life.

14. What is the meaning of ‘peace’ to you? It's not necessarily a lack of trouble or problems; I think it's more having an inner confidence that whatever is going on, I will be able to handle it.

15. What are three moral rules you will never break? Don't read someone else's diary or letters; don't interfere with someone else's possessions; apologise when you know you're in the wrong (and sometimes when you think you're right).

16. What does it mean to allow another person to truly love you? It means having to be completely honest and vulnerable to them.

17. Who or what do you think of when you think of love? S.

18. If your life was a novel, what would be the title and how would your story end? Title: You Don't Know Where You're Going Until You Get There. Ending: Dying peacefully in my sleep at the age of at least 99.

19. What would you not give up for $1,000,000 in cash?

20. When do you feel most like yourself? When I'm doing something I wasn't sure I would be capable of, or when I've just done something that scared me and I did it anyway.

21. When you help someone do you ever think, “What’s in it for me?” No.

22. What is your greatest challenge? Right now, learning how to live by myself again.

Where oh where

Apr. 22nd, 2025 10:57 am
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I got home from errands and there were no cats to be seen. Biggie has taken to hanging in the bathroom these days. There's a very large towel that hangs in there and often he pulls it down. I finally got a clue as to why just now when I went in to pee. He doesn't mean to pull it down, just down enough for a cat tent!

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Julio has yet to be seen but he has lots of hiding places and he'll be out in a min. Biggie will stay in his hidey hole for hours on end. Julio stays 5 mins or less.

Errands all done. Lunch ordered for pickup. Dinner ordered for pickup. I'll toe soak again after lunch.

So far, the day is ok dokey.

Doggies

Apr. 22nd, 2025 11:42 am
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Meet Axel:

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Axel is a fairly new to the ranch dog. Not sure about the back story but he is blind and VERY sweet. And has a long snout:

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And this Shadow in December of 2021:

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She was maybe the first dog I walked at the Ranch and one of the originals.

This is Shadow today:

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She's not moving as fast but still looks good. She has a full time foster so we seldom see her. When her foster family goes on trips or something similar they bring her by for a few days. I was fortunate to get to walk her.

Toe to toe

Apr. 22nd, 2025 08:50 am
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Last Wednesday, my big toe started bleeding from a split on the side of it. I don't remember hitting it nor did it hurt. I put a bandaid on it and all was good. Yesterday the bandaid was tired of being on it so I took it off and everything looked fine. This morning I woke up and that toe was one pissed off toe. It's not mad at the joint so I don't think it's gout. The only visual change is that it's red. But only a little. It does hurt when you press on it and it's not too happy about walking. Crocs help.

Dr. Google says soak in Epsom salt for 15 minutes 3 times a day. soak 1 is now halfway done. Dr. Google also recommends anti fungal cream which I actually have on hand. So. hopefully, I can nip this in the bud. I do not want toe issues.

Playing volleyball was fine because my swim shoes have lots of toe room.

I do think I'm going out this morning. Amazon returns and a couple of things at Safeway. Mainly tortillas. The shades guy comes at 2.

I have two small ottomans in the bedroom both of which have storage. They have held stuff I rarely need. The top shelf of my closet holds blankets and quilts. Yesterday I swapped everything so that my blankets and quilts are now far more easy to get to as is my iron. I've now lived here a year and a half. Maybe in another year and a half, I'll have it organized right!

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The next phase

Apr. 22nd, 2025 10:49 am
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Turns out Dana fractured her Greater trochanter:

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right next to the hip joint. It is a combination of osteoporosis and a bad luck kind of slow motion fall. She never even hit anything but there is a muscle that I'm guessing just pulled the bone apart a bit.

The upshot is they are moving her to an inpatient rehab facility connected to a hospital in Georgetown. Not far and a place we've spent time in during the years we've lived here so not at all an intimidating place or a too big one.

But it is another step into the morrass of senior living, one of those things that happens to old people.

The really bright side is she will get lots of information and encouragement. She really needs to have a personal trainer, someone to push her like a physical therapist would but one that is paid by us directly and has long term interaction. Of course, so do I.

I went bed shopping yesterday and figured out what we're going to do. Our bed needs to be lower so I'll replace the box bottom of the bed with an adjustable platform. Keep our mattress for now but the platforms can be adjusted to the height you want so it will make her life much easier. Our head and foot and frame of the bed stays the same. It is actually a minimal change for a huge gain. I'd have done it long ago but it seemed like a huge and expensive change neither of which is true.

The store I got this info from was the same one we got our current mattress from and they were and are wonderful. Both times we got a non commissioned sales guy who had all the info and was happy to have us buy what WE wanted, not what he wanted us to get. So nice.

I'm going to get osme lunch and maybe rest a bit then go to see her. Now she's not coming home right now, things are all different. Adjustments will be made.

I only wish I could explain it to Toby who sits on his chair looking for his mom.

In-Person Meeting Minus 1

Apr. 21st, 2025 08:02 pm
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It’s pouring rain out. I’m glad for my raincoat; it kept me dry. Bella lasted for a few minutes and then went up on the porch, out of the rain. The ferns will like it.

Woke up at 7 AM. Bella found an enormous stick that she was dragging around. She chewed up one of the ferns :(

RIP Pope Francis. You were one of the better ones.

Yay. Another colleague is driving a colleague to his hotel (we're having an all-staff meeting Tuesday and Wednesday). So I can stop worrying. I went to lunch late though because the person "on-call" had an errand to run.

I'm trying to get ChatGPT on my phone but am having problems.

Crud. I don't have the money for the Doggie Day Care. I'll call them later today. Actually, I have enough cash. I won't be able to go out to dinner tomorrow night. I neeeed my check from the trust!

I found an outfit to wear tomorrow. Black-and-white striped top, tan vegan leather blazer, and jeans.

My psychiatrist recommended that I take a vitamin B12 and D supplement.

Bella is now insisting on me bribing her with treats to come in. It works though :) Now she’s trotting around with a pair of my underwear that she’s trashed.

I've been exchanging emails with my dad about Paris and Europe. I forgot that he looked for some books in French for me while he was in Paris.

Hmm. I was reading [personal profile] susandennis’ post about WiFi connected shades, and I wonder if I could get one on a timer in my bedroom to open when I’m supposed to wake up. That would rock. I need to do some research. Yes, it looks like it’s possible with Alexa or Google Home.

Got us all fed. Now what? I need to get up early to drop Bella off at doggie daycare and get to my meeting. Oh. I need to run an errand. And go to the library too.

Crud. I got myself together, but my phone’s battery is low. I think that I’ll skip the library today (I need to bring my charger to the meeting tomorrow) and let it charge while I post. I should be able to go to the store though.

I feel like all I'm saying is "No." "Bella, leave Oliver alone." "Oliver, quit chewing my straw." "Bella, stop barking at Lily." But they've settled down now. Sort of.

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Books:

I’ve been doing National Just Read More Novels Month in January for several years now. So there’s a heavy dose of novels for the 1st quarter of the year, during which I read 10 books.


  1. Jasper Fforde, The Constant Rabbit. Fforde is one of my favorite writers because of the sheer wildness of his imagination. The premise of this novel is that there was an anthropomorphic event that turned some rabbits (and some other animals) into being human-sized. There’s a lot of political parody involved, including an anti-rabbit party and attempts to segregate the rabbits in their own community. There are lots of fun details, including several references to the movie The Court Jester, as well as a bi-weekly event called “Speed Librarianship” which compresses two weeks of library work into six minutes. This was a very enjoyable read, even if I did find myself singing the Allen Sherman song “You’re Getting to Be a Rabbit With Me” for the next couple of weeks.

  2. David Lagercrantz, The Girl in the Spider’s Web. Lagercrantz wrote three sequels to Stieg Larsson’s Millennium Series, featuring Lisbeth Salander and Mikael Blomqvist. This was the first of those three, and had to do with Russian cybercrime, as well as attempts on the life of an autistic boy who Salander tries to protect. It is very violent, but the violence is not gratuitous and makes sense in context. I thought Lagercrantz did an excellent job of following Larsson’s style and I found this to be a real page-turner. Highly recommended.

  3. Evelyn Waugh, Brideshead Revisited I first read Waugh in the late 1970’s when Vile Bodies was on the reading list for a class I took titled Evil and Decadence in Literature. I went on to read several other books by him and mostly enjoyed them. This is one of his best-known books, since it was turned into a TV miniseries and, sad to say, I found it extremely disappointing. My problem with it is that nothing really happens except lots of drunkenness and adultery. Even Aloysius (Sebastian Flyte's teddy bear, who is, frankly, the most likable character) vanished after maybe a third of the book. Don’t waste your time.

  4. David Lagercrantz, The Girl Who Takes an Eye for an Eye. Lisbeth Salander encounters another woman in prison, who is being terrorized by a gang. That story is tied into experiments with twins, including Lisbeth and her fraternal twin sister. Again, there is a lot of suspense and violence (including the murder of Lisbeth’s former guardian) but, if you can handle that, it’s another page turner.

  5. Bran Stoker, The Lair of the White Worm. Stoker is, of course, best known as the author of Dracula, which I consider an excellent treatise on feminism, largely because Mina Harker is such a strong character. This book, alas, was more predictable horror novel fare. A young man comes from Australia to meet his family and gets entangled in odd goings-on in a neighboring house. There’s a woman pursuing the wealthy next door neighbor, but is she really a large white snake? And why does every mongoose he buys meet a horrible death? Horror alone is just not sufficient for me.

  6. David Lagercrantz, The Girl Who Lived Twice. This is the conclusion of Lagercrantz’s contributions to the Millennium series and is just as good as his other two novels in the series. There’s a mysterious death in Stockholm, which turns out to be tied to an Everest expedition. There’s some fascinating info about Sherpa DNA and a horrifying attempt to kill Mikael Blomqvist. I found this both thoroughly absorbing and completely frightening. Well done!

  7. Marilynne Robinson, Home. I read this for my book club. I’d really liked Robinson’s 1980-ish book Housekeeping and the movie based on it. She went back to writing novels around 2005 and won a Pulitzer Prize for Gilead. This novel was a sequel to that and involves the attempt of the bad son of the Boughton family to return home after an absence of 20 years. Not a lot actually happens as he attempts to reconcile with his dying father and spinster sister, but I did think it was interesting and well-written.

  8. David Gibbons, A History of the World in Twelve Shipwrecks. This was for my travel book club and provides an interesting approach to history. Gibbons is a maritime archaeologist and uses shipwrecks as an avenue into discussing what was going on in the world at the time that a given ship was destroyed. Unfortunately, his writing tends to be too technical for the general audience. And the lack of maps makes it hard to tie the different event together. But I did learn a fair amount, so I’m glad I persisted through it.

  9. Piers Paul Read, Alive. This was another travel book club selection. I think I had read a Readers’ Digest Condensed Books version of this ages ago. And I’ve been to the museum in Montevideo, Uruguay which has to do with the plane wreck that killed several members of the Uruguayan rugby team in 1972. The author did a good job of capturing the stories of the people who died and the survivors, who had to resort to eating the bodies of some of the victims to keep themselves alive. It’s an absorbing and well-written book and made for good discussion.

  10. Marilyn Wallace (editor), Sisters in Crime. This 1989 collection of short stories by several women was, frankly, disappointing. A few of the authors (especially Marcia Muller) were successful, but a lot of the stories left me wanting something more fully developed than the space limits allowed for.



Movies: I only saw one movie during this quarter, which I saw on an airplane.


  1. Between the Temples: I’d thought of seeing this movie in a theatre and, frankly, I’m glad I didn’t because I hated it. The premise is that a cantor at a synagogue is suffering from a vocal block related to the death of his wife. He gets involved in a relationship with his elementary school music teacher who signs up to be an adult bat mitzvah student, despite not actually being Jewish. Some people apparently found Jason Schwartzman and Carol Kane quirky and fun, but I found the characters they played cringy and completely off-putting.


Goals:

Since I really just wrote out my goals for 2025, the only one I can comment on is reading and I only made it about halfway where I should have to meet my reading goal. But I did also make a dent in clearing out household clutter. Goodbye to an Art League class catalogue from, um,2014! Goodbye to expired supermarket coupons dating as far back as 2011! (To be fair, that was buried under something else in my den, otherwise known as the Black Hole of Vienna.) Isn’t living room archaeology fun?

Buying the tools

Apr. 21st, 2025 11:44 am
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I just bought a wheelchair from Amazon. Watching Dana walk across the house to get to the car was not as painful for me as it was for her but nearly so. We intend to live here as long as we can and some equipment to facilitate that is just part of the bargain.

I'll find a place to hang it in the garage where it is readily available.

So we now have a wheelchair, a walker, a rolling walker (NOT something I would ever have again or recommend), crutches and half a dozen canes. We are a well equipped army of two.

BTW, there is nothing better than a SmartCar if you are marginally mobile. The walker fits in the back and the seats are the perfect height. Damn kruats are good. I only wish they had kept making them. An electric one would totally kick ass.

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Apr. 21st, 2025 12:27 pm
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My daughter made it home yesterday in just a tad over 5 hours. She didn't say, but she must have driven non-stop. She did say there was very little traffic. Google maps, which is always very optimistic, says the trip takes 5 hours and 9 minutes if there are no delays. (My experience has always been that any trip takes an hour or two longer than Google maps predicts.)

I don't think I had one good night's sleep while they were here, but I mostly felt ok. On their final morning (yesterday) I woke up at 3 am and couldn't get back to sleep but I was feeling reasonably energetic in spite of lack of sleep. This morning, however, although I slept very well I woke up with a bad headache, but it went away after some Tylenol and breakfast, and I feel all right now. I'm expecting to sleep fairly well for the next few nights with any luck.

After my run yesterday I ended up with an incipient blister on the tip of my right big toe. I don't think I've ever had a blister in that particular spot before, and I think it was because I ran further than I have for a long time. I should have increased my distances more gradually I guess. Anyway, this morning I went for a shorter brisk walk instead of trying to run again, and the blister seems not to have developed.

My front yard has been looking quite overgrown and unkempt for a couple of weeks since the weather got warmer, so this morning after my walk I attacked it with my push mower. I didn't do a very thorough job but it looks better than it did, which is all I was really aiming for. While I was out there working I found an undiscovered egg from the girls' egg hunt on Saturday. All the eggs were plastic eggs with jelly beans and sour lollies inside, so I scored three jelly beans and one sour lolly. It would have been better if there was chocolate inside but I enjoyed the unexpected treat anyway.

Weirdest snack

Apr. 21st, 2025 07:29 am
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I love raw pie crust. Yeah, I know, weird. They sell them all rolled up into log shapes at the grocery. I take a long and chop it up into one inch pieces and put it in a plastic container in the fridge and, when I need a snack, I grab one. I'm sure I'm not the only one. But maybe I am.

I went down to get brunch from the buffet line yesterday and the line was way way way too long and not moving fast so no thanks. I had a lovely day up here. Knitting and watching TV.

I was not overly sleepy when I went to bed but had no problem drifting off. A little after 9. I did not wake up again until 5:30 and then, after a pee, went back to sleep for another hour and a half. 95 on my bed's sleep scale.

John, who is 88, says everyone dies at 88. Clearly not everyone but he sure nailed the pope. John turns 89 in a few weeks so he feels like he'll be in the clear.

I have another Amazon return but also a week to return it so probably won't be going today. Tomorrow the shades guy comes. He's a recommendation from my designer friend and has done shades here at Timber Ridge but weirdly, I cannot find any details about his shades. Good yelp,etc reviews on his service but nothing on the shades. I want wifi connected shades. And I'm really not interested in shades that aren't. I could call him and get more details but I think I'll just let him come out and 'sell' me. Wednesday I think I might go to Goodwill. I might go to the one in Bellevue as opposed to my old stomping grounds in Seattle.

Back when air fryers were a brand spanking new thing, I got one. It was gynormous and loud and had fiddly parts. And fun to play with but soon it broke. The plastic bit that held the basket in broke off. But, by then, they had toaster ovens that also did air frying. Ok. So I got one of those and have had variations of those ever since. Til now. My latest is small because my needs are small and my space is small. But it's honestly too small to really keep clean and has other issues. So I put it away. And bought a straight forward, simple air fryer. And I love it. This one is way smaller overall than my first one with a larger basket! And it is so simple to just toss the basket into the dishwasher. At some point I may get the toaster oven out again but maybe not.

Yesterday was mini monsters day but today it's back to dolls.

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Wrench in the works

Apr. 21st, 2025 10:22 am
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The direction of my day today changed yesterday morning but it too a while to develop. While getting on the bed she stepped weirdly on the step to get up and kind of twisted while her good leg collapsed under her. I was there but only saw the aftermath. She was in a lot of pain that only got worse during the day until she could not even walk at all but had to kind of drag her right leg while walking.

We called the on call nurse who called the on call doctor who sent us to the hospital. We went back to where she had the surgery and went in through a fortunately fairly quiet emergency room. Leaving the house took nearly an hour mostly watching Dana struggle to walk across the house to the car. We don't have a wheelchair and I'm now considering the utility in having one. They don't cost too much. Storage is an issue but we'll deal with it. Sure would have been good to have it last night.

The short version is she got a room and a radiologist took a picture and the on call orthopedist said it looked like she had a minor fracture. We were kind of hoping her hip joint was just unseated and needed to be put back. Bad as that sounds it is a quick process. It looks like her osteoporosis is catching up with her and has either cracked or chipped bone around her hip.

I had already cancelled everything for today and cancelled the chick pick up for tomorrow. We got her on the good pain meds and I finally left around 2:30 getting back here and finally in bed about 4AM.

Not sure what I am doing but I'll likely head over to the hospital after taking the dogs on a walk. Poor Toby doesn't know what is happening, only that his mom isn't here.

Dana did say they took a CT today already so I'm sure the docs are trying to figure out if they can avoid repeat surgery. Fingers crossed. No idea when she's going to come back. I would think tomorrow at the earliest.

2024 Year in Review

Apr. 21st, 2025 10:26 am
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I am fairly sure this is the latest I have ever done a year in review. Let’s just say that I’ve been crazy busy. Anyway, here we go in the same format I’ve used for several years now.

The worst thing that happened in 2024 was the whole fiasco with the HVAC leak in late June / early July. Which turned out to be due to a blockage from a line in a unit above mine, so didn’t involve as much money as it might have, but it was still very stressful.

Beyond that, there was also some medical stuff. Having cataract surgery was actually a really good thing. It was quite miraculous the morning after the first eye was done when I could read titles of books across the bedroom without putting on my glasses. (The second eye also went well, but that was a less dramatic change.) The knee issues that I had later in the year were also a big deal. Let’s just say I have good days and I have bad days. Getting old sucks.


Books: I read only 36 books in 2024, which is pathetically few for me. That was 14 non-fiction books and 22 fiction books. Favorites were Sleeping With the Fishes by Mary Janice Davidson, Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus, Sounds Like Titanic by Jessica Chiccehotto Hindman, Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt, and a couple of Dick Francis mysteries. The worst book I read during the year was The Naked Face by Sidney Sheldon, a suspense novel full of racism and homophobia.

I didn’t manage any used bookstore runs over the year, though I did give away 4 books. I have at least 60 waiting to go out.

I belonged to three book clubs, one of which has disbanded.

As for book-related events, I went to the Moby Dick Marathon in San Francisco in October and even read one chapter (Chapter 8, The Pulpit).

Ghoul Pool: I finished 6th out of 14 players with a final score of 117 points. People I scored on were Jimmy Carter, Daniel J. Evans (unique), Shannon Doherty, Janis Paige, Jean Malaurie (unique), Bud Harrelson (unique), and Faith Ringgold (unique).

Travel: My only international trip of the year was to Portugal (Porto and Lisbon) and the Azores in May / June. But I had plenty of domestic travel. I went to New York City in late January / early February. Then to Salt Lake City in late February / early March for Roots Tech. The total solar eclipse took me to Bruceville, Texas (near Dallas) in April, including an Israeli dance camp. Also in April, I had an overnight trip to Richmond for the Virginia Storytelling Alliance gathering. In May I went to Colorado for RhinoStock (a memorial for a friend) and also had a quick trip to Indianapolis to go to a baseball game, which unfortunately got rained out. I flew back to Dallas in July for the National Puzzlers League con, adding on a train trip to Oklahoma City to go to a baseball game. In August, I went to a Jewish genealogy convention in Philadelphia, and added in a couple of days in New York City for Lollapuzzoola (and theatre going, of course). And in October, I made a quick trip to San Francisco for their Moby Dick Marathon.

Genealogy: I’ve continued mentoring members of my local Jewish genealogy society on Lithuanian Jewish genealogy. As I’ve probably mentioned before, when I was starting to do genealogy research, other people helped me, so I feel happy to be able to help other people.

In February, I went to Roots Tech, which is a large genealogy conference held annually in Salt Lake City. The most interesting thing there was the presentation on using DNA from an old envelope - amazing, but not ready for the general public yet. I also went to the IAJGS convention in Philadelphia in August, at which I finally got to meet a cousin in person, as well as doing some volunteering.

Baseball: As I mentioned above, I had a failed attempt to go to a minor league game in Indianapolis (damn rain!) but a more successful game experience in Oklahoma City in July.

Culture: I went to 10 musicals and one non-musical play. My favorites for the year were Tick … Tick .. Boom at the Kennedy Center, Harmony on Broadway, Soft Power at Signature Theatre, and Suffs on Broadway.

I saw 7 movies in theaters and two on airplanes. Favorites were Next Goal Wins, Shari and Lamb Chop, and My Penguin Friend.

Storytelling: I performed in a Better Said Than Done show in February and emceed at the Women’s Storytelling Festival in March. I told a story at the Artists Standing Strong Together New Year’s Eve storytelling show. I went to several local story swaps (some in person, some over zoom), as well as zoom story swaps in Los Angeles and in Ottawa, Canada. I saw a friend’s storytelling show as part of Artomatic. And I participated in several discussions of Grimm fairy tales.

Museums and Art: I went to an exhibit of Dorothea Lange’s photos at the National Gallery of Art with a friend (and looked at some other art in the museum afterwards). I saw a Judy Chicago retrospective at the New Museum in New York City. I went to much of Artomatic. And I went to the Sixth Floor Museum at Dealey Plaza in Dallas and the American Banjo Museum in Oklahoma City.

During my trip to Portugal, I went to a stained glass museum in Porto, the Museo Nacional de Azulejo (National Tile Museum) and Oceanario (aquarium) in Lisbon, and the Museum of Myths and Legends in Sintra.

Other Stuff:

I participated in Lollapuzzoola (a crossword contest) in August. I played board games, sometimes with the National Puzzlers’ League, sometimes with people I know from the loser community. I also went to other loser events, including a few parties and a couple of brunches.

I went to Kochavim, an Israeli folk dance weekend (in association with the eclipse).

I did a tour of M&S Schmalburg’s fabric flower factory (via the New York Adventure Club).

I attended a few lectures in the Leading Jewish Minds at MIT series (over zoom). And I went to a reception for MIT president Sally Kornbluth.

I’ve probably forgotten something or other among this, but it was a weird and stressful year. And I think that compared to normal people, I still did a lot of things.

Goals: So how did I do on my 2024 goals? Frankly, not very well. I did not circumnavigate the globe going westward, though I did map out about half of a general plan for doing it, so I’ll give myself a 5% on that goal. I didn’t make it to any national parks. I also did nothing about cleaning out my saved files of genealogy emails. I read 37 books out of my goal of 80, so I get only 45% there. I did make some progress on organizing my bedroom, but I don’t have a good metric for that. I’ll estimate that I accomplished about 50%. I finished just about 2/3 of one afghan (out of a goal to finish 3 afghans) so I’ll give myself 22% on that goal. I still haven’t found my parents’ slides. I made it to one AAA ballpark (Oklahoma City), and had an attempt at going to a game in Indianapolis, which got rained out. So I’lll get 25% on my goal of 4 AAA ballparks. I did fairly well on exercise the first part of the year, but my knee injury meant that I did very little from August on, so I’ll give myself a 60%.

So, overall, I’ll give myself a rather pathetic 23% for the year.

Which brings me to goals for 2025:


  • Circumnavigate the globe going westward. I think I have a plan for somewhere in the October / November time frame.

  • Go to at least 4 minor league baseball games.

  • Finish 4 crafts projects.

  • Read 80 books, with a stretch goal of 100.

  • Finish going through my parents’ photographs and slides.

  • Revisit / update my life list.

  • Organize genealogy files.

  • Go to at least 3 national parks.

  • Learn to read Hangul (Korean writing system).

  • Sort through cassette tapes.

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I did not realise it was Easter weekend last week, so I got a pleasant surprise of a long weekend. In Macau we get Good Friday off, but of course my Mom's brain is still in her civil servant and Portuguese rule era and kept asking me why I'm not off on Easter Monday. Because it's not a mandated public holiday.

"But banks are closed!" she counters.

"And I do not work in a bank."

For the record, banks in Macau are closed because it's a public holiday in Hong Kong, and Macau banks are reliant on Hong Kong banks.

Did I get much done over the long weekend? Not much. Sorted out some ebooks into my Kobo, got some running done, and of course worked over the holidays from home when needed. Such is life, and I'm happy with it.

It's mid-April already so that means my upcoming trip to Tokyo is fast approaching. I forgot to book the Pokemon cafe thing in Tokyo. I mean, I remembered to try the day before (they have a book 30 days in advance thing) and I tried their system just to see how it works, and in 6 minutes, it was fully. booked. No problem, that was trial day only. The next day (the day I really meant to book), ... I forgot about it LOL.

I've read that people would go there on-day and try their luck for ad hoc cancellations, but I don't really do that. If it's a walk in type of restaurant, I'd walk in. If it's a reservation only type of place, I'd only go if I had a reservation. I won't ever try my luck with on day cancellations.

That said, that would make my schedule more flexible. I might move things around as I planned.

Then end of May I'm going to Singapore again. It's about time someone goes check the condition of that office we have. It's all above board and proper, I've done all my paperwork already, besides, I'm cheap when I travel, even when it's a work travel, I guess no one complains when I'm the one doing the traveling.

No trip in June anymore, then July and August... the parents are flying to Europe again. So, FINALLY, I can cook for myself, set my own schedule, and do whatever I want. The only thing is I will have to do the same thing I always do when they're traveling: Take Fridays off so someone is home to check on the maid.

September will probably be no trip, there's a possibility my Sis will be accompanying my aunt and cousin to Portugal because of reasons. October I have my Taiwan half marathon thing, and December I have my Tokyo Kawaguchi Lake run (a 17km segment under the Fuji Marathon). There's some not-yet serious planning on a November trip to Qingdao China.

Easter Sunday: More Car Woes

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I watched a couple more episodes of The Golden Girls. The dog is fast asleep, so I’m going to get in my pajamas and join her.

Got up at 7. Bella defended the yard against a squirrel. She ate Lily’s food. Bad dog! She was trotting around with one of my bras that she found.

I was looking for pictures of Mimi because I think that I want the painted urn. Found some.

Oh shit! I just realized that a book that Bella destroyed was a library book! Guess that I need to go over and pay for it.

Tried to nap but couldn’t sleep.

I’m trying to decide what to do. I need to run over to Walmart to get Mrs. Meyers cleaner and Munchie Bones. I need to plant the new plants, which requires cleaning out the garden bed. And I need to clean the bedroom, kitchen, and upstairs.

It’s a little early for lunch, so I guess that I’ll get in the shower. Well, I needed to do laundry, so I guess that I’ll have lunch.

I’m looking for a new housekeeper because mine is moving out of town in June. I found someone who wants to support herself as a new grad student. I’ll contact her later in May.

My towels didn’t dry, so I threw on the clothes that I had on yesterday. I found my shovel and will go out and plant the ferns (done). Then the alarm on the Honda started going off. I shut it off twice, but apparently it had been going off since last night, but I didn’t hear it. I contacted an online Honda mechanic, and he said that the alarm system was built in. He said to bring it to a dealer to read the messages why the alarm was going off, but next week is problematic because of my off-site meetings. He told me how to disconnect the battery, but I didn’t have a small enough wrench. My neighbor came over and disconnected it.

I'm supposed to give someone a ride tomorrow, but that isn't going to work.

The pup is tired from being outside so long. Napped with her.

It’s a little late to go to Walmart. I’ll go tomorrow.

I started reading Judy Collins’ book. It’s interesting.

I don't feel up to starting anything new, so I'm going to crash.

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April Memage - Days 17 -19

17. It’s International Bat Appreciation Day – are there bats where you live? Have you ever seen one flying?

Not in NYC or I've not seen any. Probably because it is a city and they tend to stick to the country?

Yes, I saw quite a few as a kid in West Chester, PA, when we living in the rural countryside. Lots of fruit bats.
the rest )
Another flower from yesterday's walk (this is not part of the meme, although you can post one if you so desire):



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A Meditative Easter Holiday and Earth Day Weekend..

I took a walk, brief, because my knees were bothering me - most likely a combination of arthritis and a side-effect of medication that I'm discontinuing. I wandered in and out of Lofty Pigeons Book Store hunting Maya Angelo's I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, but alas couldn't find it.
I may have to look in Barnes and Noble or somewhere in the City?

Prior to that, I watched the Brooklyn Unitarian Church's service on FB, where they discussed letting go of things, burning them away on flashpaper. And now, I'm listening to the Manhattan Unitarian Church's service on Youtube which is also about letting go and moving with the land, not against it, and adapting, and rebirth.

Easter and Earth Day are both today, by the way.

I also rented and watched the 1973 film adaptation of the Stephen Schwartz musical Godspell
and is also known as the lyricist and composer behind Pippin and Wicked.
And you've most likely heard the songs from Godspell out of context: Day by Day, Prepare Ye the Way of the Lord, We Can Build a Beautiful City, and By Your Side, also Turn Back Oh Man, and Willows There.
Godspell )

It was a lovely day - sunny, and springlike. I did very little. Worked on a water color, but I don't like how it turned out? So may discard and start another one. Some work, some do not.

Mostly a meditative couple of days, doing very little. Except being watchful and commenting on it here for anyone who wishes to listen.

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