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I woke up at around 7:30, did my morning routine, and now I'm going to take a nap, after petting Mimi as her rightful due :) Had a nice nap.

Sigh. Mimi is picking on Zara. I'm getting a headache.

Barb wants to come over and look at my Mom's books. I told her that I would be gone next week but would be here after that.

I had a bite of lunch and a cannoli. I might go back to the restaurant to get more of the cannolis. They are really good.

I'm going to lie down for a little while to get rid of my headache. But I need to go to Ace Hardware to get a key cut for the pet sitter.

Hmm. Mom has a coffee table in the TV room that I kind of like. (If you saw this place, you'd know why I keep "discovering" things; it's like a curiosity shop.) I might take it.

Had another nap. I'm thinking that I'll go get the key cut tomorrow after Italian and stay here. I looked for my mom's personal key but didn't find it.

Mimi is walking around grumbling.

My voice teacher is so great. She's really taking apart my singing and working on the elements of it. (I don't know if that makes sense, but she listens critically and points a lot of things out.)

I'm still crazy tired. I'm thinking of going to sleep early and getting up early to clean. Plus, I'm getting a headache again.

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The funeral went well. A lot of people didn't come because it was Memorial Day Weekend, but the people who were there shared good stories. A few people said that they liked the readings and hymns that I chose. Lots of people hugged me. Father Bob said that he ran into stop and go traffic on I-94, so I'll need to keep that in mind for my trip to New Buffalo.

Alas, Barb has a girlfriend, who came to the funeral with her. She seemed nice. I enjoyed talking to the two of them.

The bill didn't come up to the minimum at the restaurant, so the staff kept asking me if I wanted extra food or wine. I finally took a couple of extra cannolis and a bottle of Moscato. I think that I'll bring the wine with me to the hotel (need to find a corkscrew) and toast Mom.

Now I'm exhausted. I'm going to take a long nap. I did and I still feel groggy. I need to practice voice and pay some bills.

The pump on the pond yesterday was making strange noises. I consulted with the pond guy and unplugged the pump. A guy came by today and added water to the pond, and it's working now. The birds use it as a birdbath, and it's fun to watch them.

In the pursuit of making the Urbana house like Mom's house, I asked for a catalog of wooden gazebos. I would just need a small one, not as big as my mom's.

I did some voice practice, and now I'm paying bills. Then I'll go back to voice. The bills are paid, except I'm having problems logging into one of my mom's credit card accounts, and I can't find her card. I'll look tomorrow when there is more light. I did some voice practice, but I kept on yawning while I was singing. I think that I'm going to sleep now.

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May. 5th, 2023 07:28 am
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Barb is a friend of my mom's from a spiritual group that she and my mom were in called Point of Vision. She and I met last December when my mom got out of the hospital and I came to help. She and I kind of clicked, and she asked my mom for my contact info. Well both of us were busy (she's a college professor at Wayne State), so the first time that I talked to her after that was when she was concerned because my mom was confused. Actually we had a text conversation, which included our academic plans.

Honestly, I'm starting to think that this woman is my soulmate. She might be the only person who understands why I want to get a master's degree in Data Science that I probably will never use because I think that it's cool. She thought that was a good reason. And tonight I learned that she sings. She's a contemporary of me, not my mom.

The kicker? She's a lesbian and I am bi. I'd like to spend more time with her while I'm here and get to know her better.

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Kind of tired today. It snowed this morning, and the highway conditions Web site says that the highway that I take is "partially covered in snow," so I'm going to take a short nap after class and give them time to clear it. I need to stop at the library on the way out though to pick up a couple of books.

I've decided to ask the unloading folks to just put the boxes in the garage, and I'll pull them out box by box. Then I won't have to worry about the cats, and the unloading will go quickly.

Hmm. Class is over and the roads are clear now, but I really want to take a short nap. I'll keep it short. Had a nice nap. Fed the girls.

Found out where to park for the library and where the drop-boxes are. Picked up my books.

I'm in Lincoln now at Steak and Shake. And I picked up my messages, and Mom is in the hospital. They're not sure what's wrong, but she is run down. A nurse thinks that her lung cancer has spread, but Mom doesn't think so. I tried calling back, but she didn't answer. I just want to go to bed and pull the covers over my head, but I need to get stuff ready for the movers tomorrow.

I bought Mom a stuffed animal that's an elephant (she likes elephants), but I have no way to get it to her.

Crap. I have more stuff to pack than I remembered. Well, I'll get done what I get done. Mom being in the hospital has flattened me, so I'm going to close my eyes on the air mattress for a few minutes. Well, I got into a lengthy text conversation with a friend of my mom's instead of closing my eyes, but it helped.

I'm on a roll now. I have certain things that I want to get packed, and I'll do what I can tomorrow as well because the movers won't be here until 2 PM. Okay, I got the big or heavy stuff and am calling it good.

I'm back. It occurred to me that I probably can squeeze in a box or two after they load the truck. So I'm good. I fed the girls their midnight snack, and I'm going to crash quickly.

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It's snowing. I need to get ready quickly so that I can drive at a reasonable pace.

I got out early. I stopped at Circle K on the way out and realized that I left my purse at home, so back I went. I'm glad that I realized it in Urbana because if I had gotten to Lincoln without it, I would have been really upset.

Now I'm waiting for the junk hauler. They called and said that they were leaving, so this might actually happen.

I've stopped trying to pack until the haulers get here because I need to load stuff in the car. Now I'm just waiting. There was a cute cat outside my place looking quizzically at me.

The futon and washer are gone. So, yay. Now I'm at Steak and Shake for lunch.

I'm feeling dangerously tired, so I'm going to nap a little on an air mattress. Woke up freezing. Oh, I figured out why I was freezing. I smelled gas earlier, apparently I knocked a knob on the stove slightly, and turned off the heat and opened the front door. The heat is now back on.

Okay, I've got the bathroom done except some stuff that I need to hand carry and a couple of items for the thrift store. I'm calling it good because I need to do homework when I get home, and I'll be back to pick up stuff on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday nights. Plus I think that I'll need to take Wednesday and Friday afternoon off of work. Oh hell, must remember to finish sweeping out the storage space.

A friend of my mom's called me to chat. I texted her that I was cleaning out my old place and will try to call her on Tuesday night. My head kind of exploded with the extra task.

Okay, back home, and fed the ravening hordes. I think that it's soup time for me. Oh, I am wiped out. I think that I'll have the soup and crash, and get up early to work on homework.

I've decided to try the Cat Clinic of Central Illinois when the girls need their checkup. I'm hoping that they will do a good job of handling Zara.

Whoops, I got distracted by exchanging texts with my mom's friend and forgot to post. I'm in bed now, so no. I'll post this tomorrow.

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