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Mimi was having problems jumping on my lap, so I picked her up. Surprisingly, she didn’t mind.

I found a recipe for a mixed berry smoothie. They suggest adding 1/2 a frozen banana to it, so I need to pick up some bananas and freeze them.

Ow. My right arm was hurting when I pulled up the comforter. Don’t know what’s up with that. Getting older is the pits!

I signed up for BlueSky: adriennerad.bsky.social.

Ugh. I woke up at 7, decided that I'll take my shower at lunchtime, and went back to sleep for a little while. And overslept. So much for getting the recycling out.

Holy cow. 7.0 earthquake in Northern (way Northern) California. I hope that people are okay. The "pretty big one," the Loma Prieta Quake that I experienced, was a 6.9 or 7.0. Personally, I don't want to experience a quake again over 5.5. Funny, a person that CNN interviewed said that he got "seasick" because of the quake. I described the movement of the cruise ship as "being like an earthquake".

My dad is annoying me. I had sent him an email saying that I wanted to take a Panama Canal tour in a couple of years. He sent a response that the most important things are 1) finding a life partner and 2) getting your financial house in order. He said that travel, while satisfying, was less important than 1 and 2.

Well, I’m not certain that I want a life partner (most men remarry after a divorce, but women are more dubious), although I’d like to date, and that was the reason I was losing weight, although I’ve fallen off that wagon. Plus, I need to declutter my house, both to make it look nice for dating and also I don’t want to leave as much of a mess as Mom did.

As for finances, I have retirement money. And I’m working to get a pension from the uni. (Honestly, that’s the thing that is keeping me from retiring right now.) I’m working on getting the rest of my finances in order.

As for travel, I know that there will always be “one more place,” but when I die, if I haven’t been to a majority of the places to which I want to go, I will be pissed. Plus, I belong to a Facebook group of retired women, and they consistently say, travel while you can. I’m aware that my traveling time has a limit. And it makes sense to me to travel as much as I can while I'm still working. And I'm consciously doing the things that are important to me: travel, singing, piano, and Italian.

My therapist agreed that I need to live my life my way. She thought that my dad was out of line and doesn't know how to parent an adult child.

I’m waiting to cool down before responding.

Had my piano lesson. She commented that I had did a lot of work on my recital piece. In fact, I had played it so much before the lesson and at the lesson that I got really tired and stopped being able to play. That never has happened before. And I never have been so aware of my ability to concentrate as a limiting factor.

I'm need to go to bed early because I need to get up on time and take a shower and put on my makeup because we will be introducing ourselves to the governance board at work. I know I keep saying that but staying up late, but I need to stick to it this time. Posting is a start.

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The "pretty big" Loma Prieta earthquake in the San Francisco Bay Area was 30 years ago today.

I was at work. I was walking down the hall to the printer room, when the whole building started shaking violently. I thought that it was going to come down. I turned around and tried to walk back to my office, bouncing off the walls and getting hit by ceiling tiles. It could have been much worse, but it was scary enough. After what seemed like an eternity, the shaking stopped.

The phone rang. Someone else answered it and said, "It's for you." It was Erik (my ex-husband), checking that I was okay.

Erik called back a little while later. He was at work in Sunnyvale (? Or Santa Clara?), so he was going to stay there a while and let the traffic clear out. We agreed that I'd see him when I see him.

I took the bus to and from work. I wasn't sure that the buses would be running, so a colleague drove me home, which was very nice. The traffic lights were out, but drivers were being uncharacteristically polite.

I was a little scared at what I'd find at home. When I opened the door, I found a bottle of soda by the door. I didn't see the cats at first (they were hiding), but then they went, "Mom's home! Everything is okay!" I was like, "Oh ye of misplaced faith."

Amazingly, the bookshelves stayed up. (They weren't bolted to the wall.) Some stuff fell off of a bookshelf and broke, which I cleaned up. Erik's picture-hanging prowess was put to the test, and none of the pictures came down, although they had turned. The worst damage was a closet door that had come off its track.

The cable was out. The only radio station that I could get was in Santa Cruz, which had quite a bit of damage, so I assumed that there was a lot of damage in San Jose. (There wasn't.) I lay down on the bed with three cats draped over me, listening to the news.

Then the national news came on. I was still in shock, and it hadn't occurred to me that the earthquake would be national news. The news made it sound like the Bay Area was in ruins, so I went "Oh crap" and tried to call my parents. Everyone was doing the same thing, so all circuits were busy.

Erik finally got home, and we gave each other a big hug.

The next day, they told people to stay off of the roads, so we stayed home. My nerves were fried, and during one of the many aftershocks I said, "Stop it! Stop it already!"

I finally got in touch with my parents two days later. Mom came to visit a couple of weeks later, and she said that she wanted to feel an earthquake, and I snapped at her. (There actually were two aftershocks while she was there, but she missed them.) It took me weeks before I was able to go down the hall where I was when the earthquake hit.

I can't believe that it's been 30 years. Back to the current time....

I had lots of snuggle time with Zara. It's my late day, so I had a leisurely breakfast.

Urgh. The Bluehost guy told me to access the email to confirm the domain. I can't access the email, so that's the problem! I hope that we can get this resolved.

I was sitting on a chair with Zara on my lap. She jumped over my shoulder and onto the floor in one leap. I told her that she gets a perfect 10 in the Kitty Olympics. She amazes me.

I'm chatting with my dad via e-mail about IRAs. Scintillating conversation :) But I'm learning some things. It didn't occur to me to roll over my TIAA-CREF account (the higher-education version of a 401K) into a better IRA, but I should consider it.

Mimi was stalking Zara when I got home, and I told her to cut it out. She did, grudgingly, and occasionally she would start to wiggle her butt, and I'd tell her to cut it out again. Etc. Le sigh.

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Woke up at 12:30 PM. Had problems falling asleep last night, so I'm tired.

The pharmacy filled Zara's meds with one that's a different shape from usual, and it's a bitch to split the pill. Sigh.

Need to run pick up a library book that's about to get sent back, but I also want to take a nap. I could take a really short one.

Got the book and ran a couple of errands. I want to clean the car out, but it's like a swamp outside. Maybe I'll be able to work on cleaning the car later in the evening. Mimi is on my lap. I don't think that I'll be able to convince her that it's too hot to have a 13-pound cat on my lap. No, she jumped off. Thanks, Mimi.

Had a bite to eat. Zara is hanging out on my lap. She's a lot lighter than Mimi.

Took a nap. Ate dinner. Tackled the papers in the kitchen. I'm making progress.

A moth flew in and is entertaining the feline contingent. Mimi's idea of hunting, however, is to sit and "talk" to the moth to convince it to come over to her. (Mimi, love, it's a good thing that you don't have to hunt for your dinner.) Zara had caught a moth from midair when she was younger, but she's 10 now.

Holy cow. 7.1 quake in SoCal. I was in the Bay Area for the 1989 Loma Prieta quake, which was 6.9, and I never want to experience an earthquake that strong again. My thoughts are with the people in Ridgecrest. Watched the news for a while.

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Happy 4th of July. I woke up around 12:30 PM. I keep staying up later and later, which isn't good. Monday will be a rude awakening.

Mimi was playing with a wadded-up napkin that fell on the floor. The house is full of cat toys, and she plays with a napkin. Cats! (It's fun to watch her play though.) Mimi also likes hiding under the drying rack when it's full of clothes. It's a cave!

I need to decide whether to go to the fireworks show tonight. I'd enjoy the fireworks, but maybe I should stay home and soothe the cats. I could watch a movie on Netflix.

There was a decent-sized earthquake in Southern California. I should turn the TV on. Watched for a while, but there really was no new news when I turned it off.

Facebook showed me a video that I made of fireworks several years ago, so I got my fireworks fix.

I decided to watch travelogues on Amazon Prime Video after I eat and take my shower. That's kind of patriotic, isn't it? :) America the beautiful, or something like that. Though I'm also eyeing videos from outside the US.

Watched videos of Seattle and Washington state, then took a break for dinner. The challenge is how much ice cream can I eat before Zara tries to stick her head in it?

Watched videos of Oregon and Washington DC. Damn, it would be cool to live near Washington DC. There's so much to see there.

I wrapped up the evening with a travelogue of Hawaii. It was very touristy though and meh. Some nice underwater photography though. Makes me want to learn to dive.

I think that I'll wrap the evening up by doing some stuff online. I read an article about how planting trees is one of the best things that we can do to get rid of carbon in our environment. I looked at volunteer work listed by the Nature Conservancy, and there are some volunteer opportunities in the area, although they mostly have to do with prairie and wetlands conservation.

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